You Truly do have such a good heart. I can't imagine what a woman truly feels about such a big event as a wedding, it can be stressful in itself yet even waiting for the decision on when to marry or all the other details. I know first hand that if a man waits too long to ask a girl to marry him that Loves him, she will begin to wonder and doubt what is on his mind. But..if you two Love each other, be patient with him and give him time to figure out his plans with you together. He may be more concerned about making enough money so you two have have a nice wedding and a honeymoon together. That is usually the mans first concern, having enough set aside so there is a honeymoon, a nice wedding ring, maybe even a limo to go in the airport in. It is a once in a lifetime event and the man worries just as much as the woman and wants it to be a day that will live on in memory as well. Don't get too frustrated, or let him know the money thing doesn't matter as much or you two can figure out a nice honeymoon, a ring, or the expenses of other things as they come. Then its the job and getting time off, or college will start soon, or the time frame for everything to happen and get a place together. Work with him on all these and give your ideas to help, it can be stressful for both, but compromise and work together as a team and it will work out nicely. God Bless.