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Yep, we did.

Technically, yes. Our wedding night was the first time we had intercourse. But we did plenty of other things before then. I'm not saying I'm proud or ashamed of that (I'm not even sure most days), I'm just saying that's what happened.

No, we didn't. My husband had been married previously (and wasn't a virgin that wedding night either) and I... just didn't.

Yes, we did...both of us.

No, but I wished that I would have been a virgin when I married for several reasons.

My pre-marital sexual activities caused problems in our marriage and my willful and knowlegeble decsions to sin against God was a lost opportunity.

However, with God's grace and mercy my wife and I celebrated our 40th wedding anniversery this month. We still kiss and hug and enjoy each other. We are also very close to our children. Thank God!

etmama,
I admire you and your husband for following a more godly path in your pre-marriage sexual decsions!

Close. My wife was a virgin and I had had one previous partner.

both of us were virgins.

DH and I waited til marriage.

Yes, we both waited.

We both did. It was the best gift either of us could ever give.

I waited; he was abused in his only previous relationship.

Neither of us were virgins - my DH was married previously and I'm an adult convert to Christianity with previous significant relationships.

But we waited with intercourse until we were married - we're glad we did!