I can give you my personal thoughts if you'd like
For me, it all ties back into the free will thing. Pesky thing, that free will
It's God-given. He didn't have to give us free will, but He did, for whatever the reason. Personally I think if we didn't have free will, true love (for God, for each other) could never exist, because true love is only born from the freedom to
choose love, not from force or some sort of underlying "it's in my nature" type of deal.
So He's given us free will. Now what?
Well, free will means we have the choice to choose. We can choose anything, anything at all; we can choose good, and bad, love, and hate. And we each make these simple-yet-complex choices each and every day in so many things that we do.
Now, let's say that God decides to stop me from doing something bad that I chose to do. Let's say I chose to steal money from my company (I don't know if I should be posting about this from my company computer
). And God said "Whoa, wait a minute... hey, that's bad. I'm not even going to let you do that." And in an instant, I'm basically disallowed from performing my own actions, or the want is stripped from my head, or something changes where I no longer am about to DO that anymore, nor am I even able.
Hmm. Well, wait... God gave us the free will in the first place, but then stripped it from me? *shakes her head* It just doesn't float I'm afraid. In that moment, He would be removing my
choice. He can't do that, because He decided already that it is each our gift to make whatever choices we want to make... risking that we will make bad choices, but knowing the wonderous things that can come from us making good choices.
I personally think that it pains God to see what we choose to do with Free Will, but... it was His gift to us. And now it's ours to do what we please. And we really, really mess it up sometimes.
But that's our choice.
And in that same free will, people choose to love Him. And that must be an amazing thing for Him, because when we choose freely to love Him and each other, that is the best thing we can do with our God-given choice.
Now, there are some flaws in my logic to some people. People who believe in pre-destination, people who believe free will isn't real, and so on. I can't answer for everyone, nor can I help understand -everyone's- beliefs.
But
I did want to answer your statement, where you said you can't understand why Christians could accept an all powerful God who would allow suffering.
For me? God cannot contradict His order of Free Will in this universe. If He did, it would be like Him admitting He made some sort of mistake... He's perfect, He doesn't make mistakes.
So either He's perfect, and free will is exactly as it should be, or He's not perfect and.. well.. He wouldn't be God.
Again, I have a choice on which to believe, in a sense. Pesky free will
I do choose the former.
I wish I could give you 110% proof of every question you will ever have, but of course I cannot. From my explanation alone, I'm sure you will find a thousand more questions to ask. I do not have the answers you are looking for, I have to admit that
But, I hope you accept my humble explanation of how this one Christian feels regarding the topic, and know that I tried to share my view on it at least