Recently my wife and I (by her suggestion) started going to church about 2 months ago. We were not christians going into this, though we liked to call ourselves that because we were raised that way (you know....christian by upbringing, but not really knowing anything about it!). Well, by the grace of God, I had a revelation about my life and just totally gave up my life to Jesus Christ (whom, I never even believed in before). Anyways, my eyes have been opened to a lot of things since then, and my walk has been awesome so far......except.....I have hit a roadblock! My own wife thinks that I am making a bad decision by doing this. She thinks that I am not ready for this. I want to be baptized (I told her that the first day I attended this church) and have been putting it off for her sake now for 2 months. She still is not giving me her "blessing" for lack of a better term, instead she is just saying that "You're gonna do what you want and I can't stop you anyways". That is not how I want to go into this, but every time I try and talk to her about it, she gets very hostile and upset, and the conversation ultimately ends in quarrel. She has not yet asked Jesus to come into her life yet, but ironically she is more active in the church than I am. I just don't get it!!! There is no good reason why she should be fighting me on this!! I had a bad history with sin and she suffered from it, I just want to do the right thing for myself, our marriage, and our two children.
Please....somebody out there must have had a similar situation. What should I do? I have talked with my pastor about it and he says that all I can do is pray for her (which I am doing), and love her (which I will always do). But at some point soon here, I feel like I am being forced into choosing between my faith and my wife. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for taking the time to read this!
Please....somebody out there must have had a similar situation. What should I do? I have talked with my pastor about it and he says that all I can do is pray for her (which I am doing), and love her (which I will always do). But at some point soon here, I feel like I am being forced into choosing between my faith and my wife. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for taking the time to read this!