Please pray for my safety. (update April 13th)

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Shubunkin

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We had a very protective Sheltie (also known as a Shetland Sheepdog) when I was growing up. Our neighbor, who we were on good terms with and had visited us a number of times, came over one time but didn't wait for anyone in the family to let him in. She jumped up and bit him on the arm, yeah uninvited people were not welcome in her opinion. She was extremely well behaved, she just didn't like him entering uninvited.

Another time my sister and I had taken her for a walk. We passed in front of this one house and a black lab (much bigger than a sheltie) came running from the back yard toward us growling and barking. Before we realized what happened she had somehow gotten free of the choker collar that was her normal collar, the leash now slack in our hands, and had was facing down the lab several feet in front of us. Several tense second of the two dogs barking and growling at one another and the lab let out a wimper tucked in its tail and scurried off. That wasn't the first time she had done something similar, she did that once when my parents were walking her and got confronted by an angry dog.

I miss that dog, she was the best pet one could hope for.
I agree, it's all in the attitude of the dog. There are some smaller dogs that have a toughness quality. Pekingese are great for that. I had a Peke once, and he took on dogs several sizes large than he. It just didn't faze him. He thought he was huge in stature.

We had a Border Collie - and he was tough-sounding. A person would think we had a mad-dog German Shepherd to hear him bark through the door. He was 47 pounds. Border Collies (also a herding breed) are very active, though. An older one might be calm enough for an apartment. Our two-year old Border Collie was just beginning to calm down when we found him a really nice home. I couldn't care for him any more and had to give him up.
 
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Update:

A note was put in my neighbors mailbox. It is the one right immediately next to mine (the two together with no others) that was a written death thread. It was not addressed to anyone particular. It basically said just this (cuss word used to replace the cuss word in the note) "Cuss word you, I am going to kill you cuss word."

My neighbor has no known enemies ... never has had one. She is the sweetest devout Catholic you would ever meet. She is divorced and has not dated in over 19 years. I don't believe it was meant for her.

It appears that because the mail boxes look identical and the numbers on the boxes are worn that someone meant the threat towards me.

It rained. The police said there was no way to get prints. They told me there was nothing they could do.
 
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There weren't any prints on the letter or the envelope or anything?

It wasn't in an envelope. The police put it into a baggie and kept it.

I didn't post that my car broke down too. One of the radiator hoses sprung a leak. I am trying to not be paranoid about it. At night my car is locked in my garage. But it is outside at the office. It is an older car. I could have just worn a leak, right?

I am dyslexic and when stressed I tend to misplace things and lose them. I lost my key chain with all my keys. My office key was not on it but my house key was. I am really broke right now with the car repair costs, etc. I can't afford to have the locked changed. I would have to change them all to give the landlord a copy as that is the requirement. Ugh.

I am going to go to a healing service at the monestary as soon as possible. This feels like a spiritual battle to me.
 
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Update:

A note was put in my neighbors mailbox. It is the one right immediately next to mine (the two together with no others) that was a written death thread. It was not addressed to anyone particular. It basically said just this (cuss word used to replace the cuss word in the note) "Cuss word you, I am going to kill you cuss word."

My neighbor has no known enemies ... never has had one. She is the sweetest devout Catholic you would ever meet. She is divorced and has not dated in over 19 years. I don't believe it was meant for her.

It appears that because the mail boxes look identical and the numbers on the boxes are worn that someone meant the threat towards me.

It rained. The police said there was no way to get prints. They told me there was nothing they could do.
:(

Lord have mercy ! Lord have mercy, Lord have mercy.
 
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It wasn't in an envelope. The police put it into a baggie and kept it.

I didn't post that my car broke down too. One of the radiator hoses sprung a leak. I am trying to not be paranoid about it. At night my car is locked in my garage. But it is outside at the office. It is an older car. I could have just worn a leak, right?

I am dyslexic and when stressed I tend to misplace things and lose them. I lost my key chain with all my keys. My office key was not on it but my house key was. I am really broke right now with the car repair costs, etc. I can't afford to have the locked changed. I would have to change them all to give the landlord a copy as that is the requirement. Ugh.

I am going to go to a healing service at the monestary as soon as possible. This feels like a spiritual battle to me.
Please find a friend to stay with ! Even so you can get some sleep ...
 
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It is so sad that some people have the time & money to obsess & cultivate destructive behavior. May with God's mercy, our prayers & fasts, the intercssions of the Theotokos you be protected and the malcontent be shamed to repentance.
 
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Please find a friend to stay with ! Even so you can get some sleep ...

First I want to thank everyone for the prayers!

Thekla, the good news is that my sleep problems are much improved. I sometimes have trouble falling asleep and I do wake earlier then I want but I am consistantly getting a minimum of six hours sleep every night... and that is at night... not like before when I would go to bed a 5 or 6 am and sleep until 11 am or so... Now I usually go to bed around 2 and sleep until 8. I see this as the fruit of the prayers of others! Especially as I have no reason to feel safer then before. Thanks for the prayers.
 
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First I want to thank everyone for the prayers!

Thekla, the good news is that my sleep problems are much improved. I sometimes have trouble falling asleep and I do wake earlier then I want but I am consistantly getting a minimum of six hours sleep every night... and that is at night... not like before when I would go to bed a 5 or 6 am and sleep until 11 am or so... Now I usually go to bed around 2 and sleep until 8. I see this as the fruit of the prayers of others! Especially as I have no reason to feel safer then before. Thanks for the prayers.
God is good ! :)
 
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You poor dear! I'm still praying for you. :crosseo:

I was thinking you should move from there, even if it's a short distance away. Then I read your car broke down, and you are broke (like me) and you surely cannot move just yet. I agree you should take some time out and stay with a friend, even for a short while. It's a positive sign that you are getting some rest and sleep, even though nothing has changed.

With this guy's past record, I wish law enforcement could take the letter as an added threat, and arrest that guy. It's never as we wish it were, though. :hug: So sorry to hear this is continuing with no help from the law.
 
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Pray to St. Nicholas that you will find your keys. He is an awesome help in time of need.

If you cannot find the keys, then perhaps they were lifted by someone? When did you last see them? Make sure that your purse closes securely so that no one can steal anything and that you cannot lose anything should the purse fall over. Check the area under the car seats and the areas between the seats if you have bucket seats, also check between sofa cushions.

Car hoses do need regular replacing, so that is not strange.
 
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