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With this post I would like to present parts of my own personal testimony. This is not really meant for a debate, just some background information about myself to help others understand why I hold the views I hold.
I accepted Christ into my life when I was about seven years old, and my life was never the same after that. At about age 12 I started noticing some weird feelings I was having; instead of becoming attracted to girls (like my other peers) I was becoming attracted to boys. Having grown up in a Southern Baptist church I felt (at the time) that these feelings I was having were evil and that with enough discipline I (with the help of God) could will them away. I prayed and prayed, but nothing changed. By about age 16 I became more determined to be "normal." I was so disgusted at myself for my homoerotic feelings that I sank into a deep depression, developed anorexia, and contemplated suicide daily. I tried to induce heteroerotic responses within myself by looking up straight inappropriate content (I justified it by saying that I was trying to "cure" myself") Nothing changed. I developed a crush on a boy in my class and became real good friends with him (he was also a member of my church). When one night I found out that he wasn't gay I reached the apex of my depression and tried to slit my wrists, my friend talked me out of it. I decided that if I wasn't going to slit my wrists that I would just starve to death. I was angry with God for making me this way and not changing me, I wanted to be in a hospital, dying so that He could see what He had done to me. When I had lost 25% of my total body weight (50 lbs) within two months my mom took me to the doctor. The doctor then referred me to a wonderful therapist. Upon first meeting her I came out to her and told her that I was gay and that I didn't know how do deal with it considering I am a Christian and that the Bible is against homosexuality. She stopped me in my tracks and uttered the words that would change my life forever, "You're gay, there's nothing you can do about it, God loves you, he made you gay, and he doesn't care if you're gay or straight." That day forward I was given a new confidence. I eased out of my eating disorder and my depression was lifted; I had never felt so wonderful in my entire life. I was given the gift of life, the ability to be myself. Through my own experience I can see that God does in fact make us either gay or not, we have no control over it. The only thing we can decide is who to tell. I am proud to say that I'm a gay Christian, and God loves me just as I am. Whosoever will come may come.
I accepted Christ into my life when I was about seven years old, and my life was never the same after that. At about age 12 I started noticing some weird feelings I was having; instead of becoming attracted to girls (like my other peers) I was becoming attracted to boys. Having grown up in a Southern Baptist church I felt (at the time) that these feelings I was having were evil and that with enough discipline I (with the help of God) could will them away. I prayed and prayed, but nothing changed. By about age 16 I became more determined to be "normal." I was so disgusted at myself for my homoerotic feelings that I sank into a deep depression, developed anorexia, and contemplated suicide daily. I tried to induce heteroerotic responses within myself by looking up straight inappropriate content (I justified it by saying that I was trying to "cure" myself") Nothing changed. I developed a crush on a boy in my class and became real good friends with him (he was also a member of my church). When one night I found out that he wasn't gay I reached the apex of my depression and tried to slit my wrists, my friend talked me out of it. I decided that if I wasn't going to slit my wrists that I would just starve to death. I was angry with God for making me this way and not changing me, I wanted to be in a hospital, dying so that He could see what He had done to me. When I had lost 25% of my total body weight (50 lbs) within two months my mom took me to the doctor. The doctor then referred me to a wonderful therapist. Upon first meeting her I came out to her and told her that I was gay and that I didn't know how do deal with it considering I am a Christian and that the Bible is against homosexuality. She stopped me in my tracks and uttered the words that would change my life forever, "You're gay, there's nothing you can do about it, God loves you, he made you gay, and he doesn't care if you're gay or straight." That day forward I was given a new confidence. I eased out of my eating disorder and my depression was lifted; I had never felt so wonderful in my entire life. I was given the gift of life, the ability to be myself. Through my own experience I can see that God does in fact make us either gay or not, we have no control over it. The only thing we can decide is who to tell. I am proud to say that I'm a gay Christian, and God loves me just as I am. Whosoever will come may come.