I truly did not mean to offend. Its just that, I attend a Non-denominational church out here because I like the contemporary worship, and my kids enjoy the childrens church. I may not agree with all of their theology, but overall it is a nice place. When I have gone to the churches around here that are Reformed, which is PCUSA and an RCA church, they are very rigid, seeming entirely like the old Catholic masses I went to when I was a kid. And, perhaps most importantly, there is little outreach or anything, because quite frankly, there is no membership. The PCUSA has a grand total of 35 members. The RCA was something like 54. The RCA church, DID just have Vacation Bible School, which my kids attended, but that is virtually the only outreach they do. I guess more than anything I was wondering if thsi is typical for the Reformed churches, or it may just be a by product of the heathenistic, immoral, ungodly city in which I live. Maybe I need to leave in order to get closer to a good Reformed church.