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Recent content by welshchick

  1. welshchick

    Love-sick

    That was really helpful, thank you Katomi :) I hadn't thought of it in that way before, and now i have, i think you are right. I think part of me get's scared that if i fill my time with things to do, then my boyfriend will be upset because he'll think that i'm not missing him as i'm busy...
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    Love-sick

    Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months, and we're both very much in love with eachother and know that we want to marry each other. We live on the same campus when we're at college, so we get to see each other every day - at breakfast, between lectures, lunchtime, dinner, evening -...
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    Maturity differences

    i totally realise that i can never expect for him to act all mature at all times - even i like to act like a kid sometimes; and also it doesn't mean that i don't like having fun, cos i love it - i love to mess around. I feel that i'm more spiritually mature than him, which i do find a little...
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    Maturity differences

    Do you think that all relationships have maturity differences between the girl and guy? Do you think it can be a problem in a relationship too? My boyfriend is a year older than me, but i'm more mature than him. Sometimes i really struggle with this. But how do you deal with it? I can't...
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    finding a church

    hey, there's a good church in Whitby (but is that too far?) - it's called Whitby Evangelical Church. i know a guy who goes there.
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    My boyfriend's family dislike me

    Thanks for your prayers trinity :) I think it went well - although i didn't see a whole lot of his family (which was good in a way). We went to London for the afternoon (as he lives near there) which was really good - got to go to some parts that i'd never been to before but had heard a lot...
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    Kissing the neck?

    Me and my boyfriend kiss each other's necks, and we don't have a problem with it, as it doesn't lead us to temptation. But that is just us and our boundaries - it's not the same for everyone. As Byootaful said - its something you would have to discuss with your future boyfriend as to what your...
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    Pressured and finding it hard to be honest

    Absolutely, i agree with you 100% Blue Impulse. I've decided that i'm going to tell him - that i have to tell him. I can't do it at the moment as we're apart from each other (we're on college vacation). But once we get back to college and we see each other again i'm going to speak to him...
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    Pressured and finding it hard to be honest

    As far as i know he had a pretty normal and good upbringing. He has quite a big family too - if that makes a difference? Would this affect the way he is? If so, how? He's also quite a jokey person - he likes to joke about a lot, so this has made me wonder if this is partly why he takes...
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    My boyfriend's family dislike me

    Thanks trinity. I would especially ask for your prayers, as i'm driving up to see my boyfriend (and most probably see his family) for the day tomorrow. I'm so nervous. I should just be really happy to be going to see my boyfriend, but my nerves have taken over now, and i'm terrified! Please...
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    girls like to be treated like crap

    I would say that that is a very selfish way to treat a woman. If my boyfriend was like that, even though it would break my heart, i wouldn't stay in the relationship. I'd leave to find someone who truly appreciated me and cared for me, and vice-versa.
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    My boyfriend's family dislike me

    hey trinity, i'm sorry that you had a bad experience with your boyfriend's family the other day - it didn't sound nice at all, but you braved it out which is good - maybe that will show them that you're willing to endure their nastiness for the sake of your boyfriend. that's commendable at...
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    Pressured and finding it hard to be honest

    Yes, i think we both have communication problems, and that does worry me, although i know that we are going to have to talk about it. At the moment we're apart from each other as we're on college vacation, but when we get back i will have to talk to him. You're right about it being a lie to...
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    Pressured and finding it hard to be honest

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months, and i love him a lot, however, i've had some real anxieties over the last 2 months about us. He told me about 6 weeks after we started going out that i was the girl he was going to marry, and he wanted to know that if we got married, when did i think...
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    My boyfriend's family dislike me

    I have a similar sort of problem trinity, although yours is mroe advanced than mine, and my problem may be partly my silly old self being a bit of a muppet! I have onyl been dating my boyfriend for four months, but one weekend his sister came down to see him at college. I found that weekend so...