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Recent content by violetchick

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    Justice for the Aborted and Unborn

    Please don't talk about things you clearly know nothing about. I had an ectopic pregnancy myself many years ago and had an abortion. If the foetus hadn't been removed when it was I would have died less than 24 hours later as my fallopian tube would have ruptured. I didn't even know I was...
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    Incestuous behavior?

    Thanks - I think the way you approach it all is silly too. Wouldn't the honest answer be' I don't know'? You shouldn't need to make up excuses for your God.
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    Is abortion ok in this situation?

    Did you think it was murder at the time? Were you a Christian then? Also - no one is denying that a foetus moves inside the womb but I don't see how you can definitively say that it feels pain when there is evidence to the contrary (I'm talking first trimester abortions here). I also think...
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    Incestuous behavior?

    But there's no mention in the bible that God decided that incest would lead to birth defects. You're just trying to force a reason that explains the higher incidence of birth defects in children of incest thaat will fit in with what the bible says. There was incest in the beginning - therefore...
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    Incestuous behavior?

    So he decided that the best way to stop the previously ok incest was to start giving children birth defects? Nice.
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    Incestuous behavior?

    But you're basically saying that God issued birth defects when he decided that maybe incest was a bad idea after all. That does seem ridiculous. And when did he change his unchanging mind then?
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    Is abortion ok in this situation?

    For me it's when they are viable ie. if they were born then they would have a high chance of survival. I suppose it's round about the 24th week now with the advances in medical science. A foetus birthed at 10 weeks is a miscarriage - not a sentient child, but a foetus birthed at 26 weeks would...
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    What does sex mean to you?

    An intensely fun and satisfying way to be close to my husband. Working in the civil service. University graduate with a really useful degree in Ancient History and Archaeology! On my second marriage. Female No Didn't intend to save myself for marriage No way did it meet my expectations! I...
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    A Saga Of Sodom; The Burning...

    This going to end up being about the evils of homosexuality somehow isn't it? I'm just guessing, of course.
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    Tribes

    The point I was trying to make (badly!) is that missionaries and governments are trying to alter many African tribes ways of life because they seem unacceptable to countries that are trying to be perceived as 'modern' and industrialised. Do the governments have the right to force laws onto these...
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    The Justice Of God In The Damnation Of Sinners

    And if they don't choose to love me I can throw them in a lake of fire, right? Fair's fair.
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    Gays in the Millitary

    Why do you word it that way? Why don't we ask men to shower with women in the military? I personally wouldn't have a problem with it myself, once I got over the initial embarrassment. Of course I'm not so arrogant as to think that every man would find me attractive. And I'd like to think that...
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    Tribes

    I thought a break from Smack Downs and catching gayness might be in order so here goes! I've recently finished watching a BBC series called Tribe, where the presenter goes to stay with a small tribe for a month and tries to live exactly as they do. And it's raised some interesting points...
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    The song "Personal Jesus"

    Surprisingly enough it's inspired by Pricilla Presley. Martin Gore from Depeche Mode: "Personal Jesus" is based on Pricilla Presley's idolatry of her King in her book Elvis & Me. "It's a song about being a Jesus for somebody else, someone to give you hope and care. It's about how Elvis was...