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Recent content by Viola_Strange

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    Is monogamy dead?

    Like that scene from Annie Hall. Best romantic scene ever. I don't know about the rest of the world, but I don't really care, I'm not going to sit around and let my husband / boyfriend sleep around while still with me. I wouldn't want a guy who would let me get away with it either. You cheat =...
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    As an atheist, why bother living?

    well, I don't know. The meaning of life is a life of meaning, and even monty python said it was subjective. You can live for yourself. You can live for others. You can live very well without living for / with any kind of belief in a god. I did.
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    None of the Creationists know what theyre talking about

    I don't see how anyone could deny evolution. I also don't get why the two are seperate. Creationism and Evolution? Darwin didn't seperate them. He never denied the existence of God. He didn't prove it, but the existence of God doesn't hinge on proof the way science does. What evolution does...
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    Hundreds of Scientists Abandoning [Evolutionary] Ship

    See, this is the problem, you can't, with legitimate reasoning, say that the scientific community is abandoning Darwin, if the debates are taking place on university campuses. That's what universities are for. Debating scientifically proven theories. They DO NOT represent the scientific...
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    Why haven't you become a Mormon?

    Because I wasn't raised Mormon. I can't join a fraudulant religion unless I was raised up in it. No matter how much good its current members may do for the world.
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    What We Can Do To Help the Poor: Ideas & Suggesstions

    Oh, Alabama's education system...don't get me started. Though our med schools are the best in the country. And I graduated from the best High School in the state. I think the problem with most education systems is that teachers simply don't care. They tend to be extremely lethargic and cynical...
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    Pat Robertson

    and don't forget old. I saw his comments. :doh: idiot. he has to know this will totally backfire. and I've had problems with Disney since they cut their entire 2D department to pour more cash into the theme park & lawsuits. btw, you share the name of my favorite living musician. be my friend?
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    The Ten Sins of the Devil (Revised and Updated)

    as long as we're turning this political: Sin #12 The Devil convinced Americans to vote for Bush in 2004. btw, I actually enoyed this thread. what fun!
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    The Immorality Of Modern-Day American Capitalism

    Well, in that case, more than half the people that have children, shouldn't be having children. I don't know many families that are adequately providing for their children's future -- except for like the super rich, Bush family, Hilton sister socialites. Providing for their present seems to be...
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    Ptsd?

    I was sexually harassed by an older man about a year ago and I'm still really jittery around guys. When I try to be myself and flirt and try to get to know guys anymore it's like I can't be myself and let them know who I am. I mean, I can listen, all I have to do is stand there and nod and try...
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    A Question for Those with OCD

    wow, that's really specific. I guess, yeah, from my own personal experience you can find yourself obsessing about anything. I never obsess that specifically though. I had thoughts constant death anxiety all the while up until my surgery, about all that could go wrong with the surgery. but to...
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    The Immorality Of Modern-Day American Capitalism

    Sorry, I didn't realize having children was a poor choice. and I don't see how taxation is punishment for the wealthy. I hear the cast of Friends complain about the high tax rates they have to pay for their $1,000,000 an episode and think, puh-leeze.:sigh: oh, and to the OP, go ahead and call...
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    Most people don't know Jesus in Asia.

    We all worship the same God. He just goes by different names. Except Satanists, they worship the other guy with a bunch of different names. and then there are Scientologists who worship L. Ron Hubbard's money.
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    "Death penalty" is a misnomer

    Whether or not you agree with the death penalty (for the record, I don't), you have to agree that it takes a much higher moral character to be able to understand & even forgive someone for their crimes rather than condemn them. I'm not a murderer, but like that Fiona Apple song, sometimes I...
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    Criminal behavior in children

    1. Torturing and killing animals is usually the first signs of sociopathy in a child. It really depends on how the child reacts to it. It could be curiosity. The natural reaction though would be for the kid to cry or run to mom or dad when the animal stopped moving. Some, most likely boys, will...