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Recent content by User101

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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    well hi guys, guess who's back. its me, i have a laptop now so i'll probs be around more often. does anyone know anything that can help with dreams? I Hate Them! recently theyve been getting worse. so yeah any help would be so appreciated its not funny! oh and in other random news im single...
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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    he died for more people then just me... i just dont get it John, how can God let me go through all this and yet still tell me he loves me? I'm so tired! ive had about 5 and 1/4 hours sleep for the last week and a bit. Thats how bad my dreams are, and they're getting worse! why wont God stop it?
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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    I was born for greatness, born to fly Now in my soul I know this, But someone’s blocked the sky, So now were all caged songbirds We all live and we die No one’s special no one’s different Or that songbird is despised So now were all just caged here We all...
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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    Boo!!:aarh:hah! i scared you all didnt I! no? oh oh well. again im sorry i havnt been around. Im lazy. Updates? umm i have two councillors now, i see one every friday. Beta Bj and me are talking every single night because i've not had a night free from flashbacks in about 3 weeks :( I'm...
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    What Are Your CF Pets' Names?

    I have a little vixen named Isilwin, it means moon joy, as in she delights in the moon. to bad that sindarin is a made up language so really it doesnt mean anything. lol, cool names!
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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    Hey its me, back again, I'm grounded and I've been busy with training at my job. So thats my excuse. :) Is drawing, writing poems and prose something we all do? as in peeps who have gone thru crap. Cause i used to kinda think i was a freak for having so many scetch books/poems or writing...
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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    Okay so first off sorry i havent been around... I had to take a trip to my Grandparents (ugh) and they dont have the interwebs :cry: And i was going to dare but then i read about a lamb in india that started to go carnivoure so then i thought the better of it. You can have your opinions... I'll...
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    from Satanist to Christian

    GUYS GUYS GUYS!!! calm down a little! I'm young but even i know that we can settle differences of opinion in a much less venemous way than what is being done now. State your opinions and respect that not everyone veiws things the same. Now I apologise for not replying in a while but ive been at...
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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    OOOOOOO Look at all the Hugs!!!:bigeye:lol. Brave? ha i'm scared of everything! like seriously EVERYTHING! ask Bj, he'll tell you its true. i think my top 7 are; flashbacks, bad dreams, people finding out about the real me, heights, the dark, EARWIGS(lol its completely irrational, they're the...
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    from Satanist to Christian

    is it possible? one of My best friends and i went to the same primary school, he comes from one of the most beautiful christian families i've ever known and after we started at different high schools we used to keep in touch by his youth group. But for reasons i can't explain he has made the...
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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    Yeah, Beta Bj, his 8 years my elder and the only person who i can really trust. He stayed up all night with me last night on the phone just cause it was the 6 year anniversary and i was scared. I still get a little paranoid sometimes, that he'll ditch me like the rest but for the most part...
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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    You see the problem with me is im scared, of EVERYTHING! but especially remembering. Beta Bj's been telling me to remember but i just can't! it'll overwhelm me! Every emotion, every time that i was frightened, angry, confused, hurt, anxious, scared, depressed, hateful, shamed. It will all come...
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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    Hi Ariel, thanx for your post and pm, and thanx to xShmalx and Johnnz for you pm's too! hugs all round. :hug: I just don't get how life can get so crap. I know there's all this free will stuff but what about MY free will? what about MY choices? I never chose to be betrayed over and over by those...
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    **Trigger warning** so this is me

    im deleting my story, its just to easy to find. i want to delete my account or at least this thread. can i?