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Recent content by Upthewrongtree

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    The after-effect

    Oh, those moments that still make us cringe. Why is that?! I want them to just go away forever. And job interviews--- don't even get me started! I used to have a boyfriend who was masterful at just making people think he was interested in what they were saying. It was an amazing thing to...
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    Constantly being told Christians MUST Fellowship

    Thank you Sing Peace for the kind words and the prayer. It made me cry. I will keep praying! And thank you Tigger for the encouragement. You are so right. I need to practice more for sure. I need to take every thought captive to Christ and ignore the world's opinion. I tell myself that...
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    Being content

    Your post made me laugh when you said you can't watch movies. ME EITHER! If that doesn't make you an alien in today's world nothing will! I have never been able to sit through a whole movie unless it's a light comedy where I can just drift in and out of paying attention and it still be funny...
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    Constantly being told Christians MUST Fellowship

    Thank you for your reply. What a difference it makes just FINALLY knowing I'm NOT THE ONLY ONE!!! Yes, just going to church is awfully hard some weeks. My husband just doesn't fully understand why I don't want to go. And our new church is one of those where you have to stand, and greet and...
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    Am I cursed by GOD or devil?

    God will not abandon you if you are one of his. He will allow trial, but he will NOT abandon. He promises that. If you do not know for sure if you belong to God -- you need to understand a few things. God is perfect. There is One God in three persons. Like there is one egg, but one shell...
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    The after-effect

    I am also curious if it's common that someone with AS (I have just discovered this is probably my life-long problem) -- if it's common that you may be fine during a social situation, only to realize AFTER that you were a complete dunce. I often describe my social issues as like being a person...
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    Constantly being told Christians MUST Fellowship

    How do you deal with not having the close relationships that you see other women having? I go to church because I love God. I don't form relationships. I have tried and tried and tried in the past to get into groups and it's always a miserable failure. How do you deal with the loneliness...
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    Asperger Jokes

    I've always been told I'm witty. But I'm most often only funny only to myself. But I'm so SO hilarious to myself! I'm a lucky gal to have me. Haha. My hubby always says I can dish out sarcasm, but can't take it. I always wondered what he meant.... Then there was my old boss who "loved" my...
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    Being content

    You're not making yourself this way. Being a Christian is hard sometimes. It's even harder for someone with an analytical mind. I'm going to try to be brief since you don't like to read, and you can ask me to expound on anything I say if you're interested. First -- Addressing throwing your...