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Recent content by tryingtobe

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    Does your spouse hold your face..

    I do the holding. My husband usually holds my back or puts his hand on the back of my head to pull me in closer.
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    Update - He Called

    Thank you all for your adice. I think it would be best if he came home after my daughter is in bed would be best. I agree that it may upset her worse to see him and then have him go away again. I'm nervous about myself dealing with that. He gets distant when I get emotional and I am very...
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    Update - He Called

    So he sent me an email that says he would like to visit next week. I said yes but I am nervous that I'm going to end up blurting out all the questions I have about where he's been and how could he do this to me. I don't know how to approach him. I feel so distant from him it's like I don't know...
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    He's coming home to talk... what do I talk about?

    He said he wants to come home next week just to visit and talk. I don't know how to approach him without chasing him off again. I want to ask so many questions but I know he dosen't want to answer most of them. What should I stay away from talking about? Should I embrace him? I'm so nervous...
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    He Called

    To answer your questions: His phone call really said nothing. Just that he was calling and he'd be in touch another time. As far as I know he did not have an affair. We have been going through a tough time adjusting to married life and cultural differences and I just came home and he was...
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    He Called

    He called my job at lunch and left a message. I don't know what to think of this. I feel like he's playing games now. I said I'm not emailing anymore and now he calls. I'm so confused.:confused: then just to confuse me more, he replies to my emai that said I wasn't emailing him anymore, that...
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    Hope is fading

    He didn't have access to my bank account but when he left I went through his things and he had my online banking password which I didn't give to him. I changed it immediately. As for the locks, I will take your advice as it comes from both of you with my best interest in mind. I appreciate...
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    Hope is fading

    I got an email from DH today and he refuses to tell me where he is or when he might contact me. I think he's been going back to the house while I'm at work because things are moved around, but when I asked him (via email) he says I probably moved them. I paid close attention after the first time...
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    *Update* If I needed help before, I need a miracle now

    I called a recommended pastor today (we haven't actually been to the church since we moved). The pastor is away this week but someon is available to talk to me tonight. I'm hoping to receive some guidance. Thank you for your prayers. I need all the help I can receive right now. It will be a...
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    *Update* If I needed help before, I need a miracle now

    He sent me an email yesterday that said he is coming home but didn't specify when. He also put the blame on me for his leaving which made me feel bad because I've only ever tried to make him happy. He dosen't want me talking with anyone about our personal business and I'm feeling like he did...
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    *Update* If I needed help before, I need a miracle now

    I feel like my strength is fading. I've barely done any work today adn I'm still not able to eat. I'm trying to be strong for my Daughter but when she is asking for him it breaks my heart even more. I can't stand the thoughts of him having an affair in our marriage and I don't know how I would...
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    *Update* If I needed help before, I need a miracle now

    My husband finally contacted me after I got a hold of his family and none of them have sent him money to leave and no one knows where he is. He emailed his brother and he is still in my city. I talked with his brother and traced the ip addredd on the computer to confirm that he is here. Then I...
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    If I needed help before, I need a miracle now.

    We've checked all the posibilities of where he could be and he's not there. He's still in my city because he contacted his brother and asked for his brother's help in comoing home. He sent me an email that just said he's ok. I don't know where to go from here expcept to talk to police or call...
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    Autisim assessment this week - results

    Her problems from birth are not related to the suspected Autism. It's actually Asperger's Syndrome that they think she may have. She's extremely ridgid and only really functions with routine. Her speach was delayed so we did sign. She had trouble with making eye contact, dosen't like loud...
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    Autisim assessment this week - results

    My daughter has been in the "special needs" category since birth but she is still only 2 so she goes through alot of maybes. This week she had her Autism assesment and it was scary because her biological father refuses to believe there's anything wrong with her (he says this for court purposes)...
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