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Recent content by Tim114

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    How long have you been with your SO?

    Almost 3yrs and 6mth, we've talk way to much about it, I've done the Man to Man talk... which was interesting... not shocking just what we have planned doesn't fit their plan for her :P Playfully considering popping the question by the end of the year or March next year... marriage might be...
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    Girlfriend needs "Emotional Spiritual Support"... what does this mean?

    I find that my girl friend happens to be that exception to that rule :scratch: It can really frustrate someone nasty when you leave you phone on silent for around 2hrs while someone is calling you... Or when you know they say one think, such as I'll be here this day and then have them say wait...
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    getting married without parental blessing?

    Live to 80 might be a 'long' stretch of time, but look at it this way. Menopause has the average on set age of 51 (ie, this is just the mean, it can happen a little before or a little after.). From the age of around 35-40 the reproduction organs of humans slowly shutdown and can be the cause of...
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    What I love about my significant other

    I love the way she is able to surprise me, even when I'm feeling really low.
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    What do you find most attractive, physically, about your SO?

    I indeed pray so... as I would not want to make such a commitment to only back out of it... even if the 'world' constantly displays such as the 'norm'
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    What do you find most attractive, physically, about your SO?

    I love her eyes, and her smile and her giggle and most of all the personality that is full of joy, hope and love... which is the most depressing thing cause she hides it from me most of the time
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    PDA At Church

    We tend to hold hands or hold a arm or lay a hand on a leg or something while sitting but for singing and pray most of the time there is minimal contact... One or twice we've had pray while in a simple hug but other then that nothing much... plus she isn't to keen on other form of affection let...
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    The man of my dreams is an Atheist?!!?

    I personal believe that the idea of hell is such that there is no contact with God there. ie I see it as a place for those you just can't understand or choice not to love God and thus can't be near God. My opinion. To an Atheist there is no absolute right or wrong. If they believe there is ask...
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    Help!

    'love' as the human mind can understand it is a very fragile aspect of a relationship. Just having 'feelings' for another person, in my opinion doesn't sanction a future union. For a real world example with my relationship. It's been going for three and a bit years. Last year we had a tough...
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    Where Are You At?

    To be honest I have no clue. I can't seem to make any sense of where we are or where we're going. The best way I can describe it is with the word 'bipolar' not that describes all aspect of it. Most of the time it far 'good' as in we can show affection to each other. As for other time it feels...
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    Young Age, different wants

    My own relationship is with both me an my girlfriend entering into our 20's and although we can both see that our current relationship is rocky due to external factors (eg. our parents desires for our lives) we know that God is pulling us together and stronger in him more as well as each other...
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    Young Age, different wants

    My girlfriend and I both share the 'dream' of helping people in Africa, but will most likely be married when we do get that chance. Maybe ask her if she could see you helping her in her dream (unless you think your path is different). My relationship has been over 3 yrs so far. 2 in close...
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    Why Are You In A Long Term Relationship?

    We believe that long term relationships are beneficial to a good marriage One of us can't make up our minds about where the relationship is going Where my picks. 1. We want to keep growing as friends, and Christ as well as keeping God the center of our relationship. 2. I have so may...
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    Would you rather....? Game!

    one song cause i like music over food :D
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    Give me a 'G' 'A' 'H'... hmmm

    Sometime she says she doesn't want people to get the wrong idea. But this even happens in a private setting where no one could see us. Over the last three years I've alway so over joyed when we have time together and feel like shouting it to the work. "This is the girl God has blessed my time...