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Recent content by thefallguy25

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    Dating Question

    Divorce is a crazy beast. My brother and his ex r not friends but his wife and ex are friends. Crazy? Do you trust him? It sounds as if the ex is not trying to hide anything,so maybe you should go if you can. It is easier to have a friendly ex than be in the middle of fights and drama. Pray...
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    rebuilding after ea

    Thanks everyone for your post and insight. Psalm63, Our time is limited not by my hours at work to get ahead or make overtime. I just work shift and there are many days that I'm walking out the door to go to work and she is just getting home from work. Shift is hard on marriages. I see...
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    rebuilding after ea

    Atlasshrugged, Thanks for your input. My wife was saved at the time. In fact she was a staff pastor for the children's ministry. I know this weighs heavy on her by the comment she make about herself. My wife may nor b perfect but who is other than the ONE who forgives us.
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    rebuilding after ea

    Atlasshrugged, Was it guilt, feeling dirty,unworthy,etc that kept you like that? Or was your husband mean and that caused you to shut down emotionally? How long before your marriage was restored? I know restorationis a long process,but was there a turning point where you knew things were going...
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    rebuilding after ea

    Revelation happened 15 months ago. The anger stage is past. On to rebuilding.
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    rebuilding after ea

    None taken. To each his own. Truth is when I first found out I could have put out a hit on this guy. But decided to go the forgiveness route. Much better.
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    rebuilding after ea

    We have had some of those things. Ex. We could kiss passionately, talk jokingly,tease have fun. Now granted we r very different. She even has said that she doesn't know why she was able to open herself up to him that way and not able to with me. She said she has always been reserved with her...
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    rebuilding after ea

    Yes in our marriage. I know your right about where I need to find my purpose. If fact this has been a huge wake up call spirtually for me. Just some weeks the loneliness is so heavy that it is hard to breath. It is in those dark hours that I have to " take my thoughts captive". We have been...
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    rebuilding after ea

    There is so much to this story. So sorry for the brief details. What I mean is that she had fun with the OM. The had and emotional connection. Likes, interest,joking around,....etc. My wife feels that those emotions r what took her down that dark road and she wants nothing to do with that. It's...
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    rebuilding after ea

    Wife had and an EA with close friend. Some physical contact also. She is sorry and repented but now has a very low desire for any physical from me. Says she could live with r without sex. Now I feel cheated because the OM was the last person to have anything she desired. Is this a phase or is...
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