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Recent content by the one and only zero

  1. the one and only zero

    I think I’m in hell. Please help me get to the bottom of this.

    You are suffering from a form of OCD called "scrupulosity" -- look it up. It will give you some insight into what is going on with you.
  2. the one and only zero

    I don't want to be alone

    It's kind of sickening that instead of offering to be your friend, some of these "christians" only say "oh well, good luck in the future." If you want a friend, I'll be your friend. I know it's not exactly what you want as far as living with someone, but I at least can be someone you can talk...
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    I think it's the majority of them, modern day. I don't think they always were; I believe the age we live in with instagram, tik tok, facebook etc. has promoted and contributed to malignant narcissism on a grand scale. Sure, I can easily pick up on the "scent" of the more obvious ones, but...
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    No. All the women I've gotten involved with were excellent liars and deceivers -- the narcissistic and sociopathic equivalent of Grammy award winners. I thought I was getting involved with people who were genuine, sincere and enlightened, but multiple times, months or even years down the road...
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    While some of them may be seeking genuine connections, there's a "but" in there, even if they aren't communicating it to you -- it's always conditional. Even my (now ex friend) used-to-be-best-friend and mother of my God child -- she was one of the more respectable women I've met (or so I'd...
  6. the one and only zero

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    First, I would like to say, as a man who is quite short, that I am extremely attracted to tall women. I have dated a woman who was almost a foot taller than me and I loved it. But to the second part of your post, yeah, treating people abusively and disrespectfully can make even the most...
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    The honest answer is yes, they have been. This is not limited to the internet. My ideal way to get acquainted is to have actual conversation and spend time together.
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    For me, it's been difficult to find a good woman who isn't a narcissist. The age we live in, with the advent of the internet and social media has also for the most part completely ruined the concept of organic dating; how does "john" who despite being a good person and a good man, stand a chance...
  9. the one and only zero

    When OCD turns physical

    Attraction is involuntarily; you have no control over what you are, and are not attracted to; you only have control over your actions and the choices you make. I suffer from severe OCD and can tell you the more you overanalyze things, the worse your OCD will get. If your OCD leads you to...
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