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Recent content by Tegger

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    Was it wrong for me to snoop?

    Seperate bank/credit accounts was our plan from the begininning. The only joint account will be his checking so I can get money if I need it while he is deployed since I haven't found a job yet. I don't want or plan to spend any of his money unless I have to unless it's to pay his bills. I'm...
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    Was it wrong for me to snoop?

    I talked to him about his debt and what was on the credit report. His says the debt and late payments are from him helping his brother and dad out (he did mention that before). There were some deliquent accounts, all of which he says he didn't open or evn knew they existed. He's going to talk to...
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    Was it wrong for me to snoop?

    I got married about a month ago. Before we got married, I asked my husband about his financial situation and we discussed money issues and who would pay the bills. We agreed that I would be in charge of the money since I'm the fiscally responsible one. When I asked him about his debt he said he...
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    Is it OK for an 18 yr old to date someone who is 30?

    This thread is 2 years old, please read my post at the top of page 7. Sorry for all the confusion. I'd change the title, but I haven't found a way to. I'm 20 years old now...
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    Is it OK for an 18 yr old to date someone who is 30?

    Update: After 2 years of dating, we got marrried on Monday! Also, Imprezer is my husband, he posted semi-anonomously(sp?) a few pages back.
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    Suitable age difference

    I've always wanted to see pics of the couples on here with the 8 yrs+ age gaps....
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    Age..

    I'm 19 and my bf is 31 and we've been together for a year now. I don't really see a problem with it as long as you're 18+, you're mature enough, etc., etc. Neither of us were looking for someone older/younger, let alone a relationship, it just sort of happened. Btw, how old is your husband...
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    waiting for our answer

    I'm at that point right now. It'll be a year for us next month as well. It's starting to annoy me that I don't know because if he's not the one, then I don't see a reason to continue with a romantic relationship. I feel that I'm too young to know and I plan to wait till I'm at least 21 to marry...
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    Age

    I think under most circumstances age really doesn't matter assuming they're over the age of 18. I have been dating a guy who is 12 yrs older than me for 8.5 months and it has definately changed my opinion on the whole "age gap" thing. I personally wouldn't date anyone that I know who is my age...
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    HUGE Age Gap!

    I started a similar thread back in June.... http://www.christianforums.com/t1773345 If you guys do get into a romantic relationship how do you plan on telling your parents about him if things get serious? I still haven't said anything to my parents, but I also don't live with them. I'm still...
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    Can a 21 year old date a girl who's 15?

    I know how you feel, I'm dealing with the samething kinda, just the other way around. It sucks. I think you should wait till she's 18 or at least till she graduates high school....people change A LOT between 15 and 18.
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    Is it OK for an 18 yr old to date someone who is 30?

    **This thread is 2 years old! I'm 18, about to be a sophomore in college. I have a friend who I've known for 5 months who is 30 years old. Now our relationship is turning into "more than friends" but the 12 year age difference bugs me. In the past, I would have never considered dating anyone...