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Recent content by Tearbear

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    I dont want to hate him....

    I am having a hard time to keep hate out of my heart. I was married (still by law married) to a guy for six years. I did everything for him and our children, even though he was mentally abusive and starting to get physically abusive. So I decide we should take a brake and I moved back to the...
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    Should I feel guilty about not "trying" anymore?

    IrvRiv It is an abusive relationship and has been for several years. I put up with it for the kids sake and the fact that the kids never got the abuse. I always tookresponsiblity for the kids so he would leave them a lone. He is a good guy deep down but he has major anger and control issues. I...
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    Should I feel guilty about not "trying" anymore?

    I can understand the frustration of separation, and the guilty feeling of want to move on. I am still in the first throws of separation, however I can understand the desire to want to move on. My "spouse" moved us out of state and then asked me to leave with the kids. I wasn't surprised really...
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    ABC movies (2)

    Under Siege
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    YES or NO are NOT allowed! :) (4)

    goat cheese is good, but I like almost any cheese there is (except asaigo :sick: ). Cheese makes me think of nachos which leads to football. Do you like football?
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    YES or NO are NOT allowed! :) (4)

    I love to try new recipes! Cooking helps relax me after long stressful days! What was the last new recipe you tried?
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    ABC movies (2)

    Ratatouille
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    YES or NO are NOT allowed! :) (4)

    I have only been told to go fly a kite by Mary Poppins! If you could fly a kite, what color would it be?
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    Telling your spouse you want out!

    Dayknee I am going through something similar. We hit some hard times a couple years ago when my husband was in an accident. Afterwards he just yelled at me and the kids a lot. We tried a year ago to move to another town because he felt that is where god was wanting him to go. However, the...
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    Hello

    HisGrace58 thank you for the warm welcome. I am really excited about this site!
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    Hello

    Hello, I have been searching for some answers lately and I came across this web site. I need positive influences in mine and my children's life right now as we are going through some hard times. I am slowly getting the hang of this web site and excited about what all it offers to a small...