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  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

Recent content by swee

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    6 Reasons to Savor Being Single

    I changed my mind; I do like being single. I just don't like failing in life, period. If I were single and financially solvent, that would be good, but struggling in life is much harder for singles, because we don't have anyone to share the emotional burden with. Also, it's VERY expensive to...
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    6 Reasons to Savor Being Single

    Good. :)
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    How do you feel about kids carrying mom last name

    Well, our name is only a fiction anyway, so I don't think it matters. Children should be free to name themselves. And no birth certificate, registering them as stock in the corporation of government either. :)
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    6 Reasons to Savor Being Single

    I don't like being single.
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    Should Local Governments Be Allowed to Ban Business Types?

    Yes. Big business destroys community; destroys humanity itself. Look at Monsanto. (my Saviour?) Pff.
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    Tiger Woods, Professional Athletes and MKULTRA.

    I'm so pleased to see this material covered on this site.
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    Why bother?

    I'll read some tonight. :) Past few days have been gnarly. I ventured out to work last night for the first time in a couple of months and overheard the regular debates about what kind of species I am. I'm sick of people. I may not be a girly-girl but I've seen plenty of women who are more...
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    Why bother?

    Blessings for you too. I'm crashing for the night but shall check out your link tomorrow. Thank you for posting x
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    You say you love god but why are you worshiping idols servants of god don't do it ?

    People always make the Bible fit what fits their own desires, I find.
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    Will God Provide a spouse? Can we know for sure?

    If one has always lived alone and made everyday and important decisions with no one to run them by, one can become accustomed to being alone, whether we like it or not. There will not be room for the whole courtship dance and relationship, even if one desires it. Our experiences shape us, and I...
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    Why bother?

    I read my Bible, but every time I open it, it's a passage about God raining torment on Israel, punishing people, misfortunes being deserved. It sometimes reads like it's our own fault we are in negative circumstances, but I know it isn't, because He made me like this. I didn't create myself. I...
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    Why bother?

    Wow, thank you for your kind thoughts and prayers, and sharing your experiences with me here; it's much appreciated and means a lot to know I'm not alone, although I hate to think you guys are in pain, too. I've pretty much been in bed since flipping my lid the other night and my doc has...
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    Why bother?

    How can I be a good Christian when I'm going through the motions and existing, instead of living? My depression is pretty bad atm, and if I'm honest, when it's not, it's just because I'm lying to myself and covering myself in the fantasy we call 'hope' of things having the potential to get...
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    God's Forgotten Ones

    I hear ya. There's no place in society for some of us. The longer I'm forced out of society, the harder it is to (want to) get back in. I'm just marking time, 'til my time is up. :prayer:
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    Describe your mood in one word

    The only words that spring to mind are not suitable to be used in company.