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    i have waited 10 years, and failed

    Warning: I am not saying this harshly to you but I am saying it sternly and plainly. I believe you when you say that your beliefs have failed. Why do you think a wife is an award for obedience or that any blessing is an award for obedience? God loves you because of who He is not what you have...
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    The "WOF" title / tag

    I's not like WOF is the only forum with this guideline. All congregational forums have the same stipulations. And the easiest way to figure out who should be where is an icon. If I want to talk about WOF issues with others of like mind then I know I can come here and get opinions from those who...
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    If you need prayer . . .

    You are very welcome. :hug: Please feel free to PM me and keep me updated.
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    If you need prayer . . .

    Rest assured that He hears, He cares, and He is working on your behalf even though you can't see it right now. Jesus loves you. Take a deep breath. Faith is a virtue and an action. You are asking for prayer and you care what God has to say. If that doesn't show faith then I don't know what...
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    How Much...

    My fiance is 17 years older than me. It quickly turned into a total non-issue for us. We are friends and enjoy one another. We are compatible. Have similar life goals. Love God and we treat each other well. Don't think I could ask for a better match. And as you get to know someone, you tend to...
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    How should a guy first touch a woman?

    My soon to be husband (in 50 days) laid a kiss on my mouth the first time we met. I'm pretty sure I haven't recovered yet given the upcoming nuptials.
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    Why do people still have so much hope for marriage?

    Ummmmm. It sort of seems like some people are not reading the posts here about Christian marriage or are dismissing what they are actually saying in order to propagate the view that Christian marriages aren't any different so we can just bash marriage in general. If you don't want to sign up...
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    Why do people still have so much hope for marriage?

    John and I are getting married because we believe we are called to one another. We have a shared vision and purpose of how we feel we should serve God. We refine one another, make each other better. We encourage and support one another and outr commitment to one another is helping to build our...
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    Gaining God's View of Marital Beauty

    I decided to pick this book up yesterday as someone else reccommended it and I am about to get married.
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    Gaining God's View of Marital Beauty

    Sorry, but you have a lot of misconceptions about that. Lifestyle is only one factor that plays a role in the development of cellulite. Even very svelte women get cellulit as they age, even without weight gain. And pregnancy . . . .well, I addressed that in another post. I know you have...
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    Gaining God's View of Marital Beauty

    Yep, I should of read this before my other post.
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    Gaining God's View of Marital Beauty

    But sweetheart, plenty of people eat right and stay fit but that doesn't give them a certain body type. Genetics play a role in body shape (not that you can't be the best you can be with whatever you have) as well as othe things, such as pregnancy which changes a woman's body in unimaginable...
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    Gaining God's View of Marital Beauty

    Not real sure if you are addressing me or the OP, but I don't think anyone has promoted that.
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    Gaining God's View of Marital Beauty

    Totally not trying to be hard on you, but perhaps you find you feel this way because you aren't yet where you need to be with God in terms of pursuing marriage. It's not that you can't or shouldn't be physically attracted, but it is about what your priority is and if only physical beauty gets...
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    How many kids do you want and in what configuration?

    Yep :D. Less than four months now actually, to JohnDB. We are getting married on June 4th. I think it is something like 113 or 114 days away. :clap: