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Recent content by StriveForAgape

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    Forcibly Left My Parents House To Find God On My Own

    I have two on my mantle and both are going with me!
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    Forcibly Left My Parents House To Find God On My Own

    Now spiritual abuse, I am not sure about but verbal abuse definitely. But I am moving on the 24th, and my parents are letting me go. They just aren't talking about it much. It's pretty tense but I feel like my head is a whole lot clearer now that I know I'm leaving.
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    Forcibly Left My Parents House To Find God On My Own

    How so? A year ago (almost) I called things off with an ex and was still very confused. In a year you grow and learn things. And in the year I noticed that part of being unsure is because I need to find Christ on my own.
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    Forcibly Left My Parents House To Find God On My Own

    To keep a long story short, my life is much of Benjamin's. Always sheltered. Extremely sheltered, even. Wherever my parents went, I was at. I couldn't really go over to friends houses, I couldn't have other friends over, and well...I think you guys get the point. I've been under lock and key for...
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    Need Advice For Wife's Infidelities

    I know I am young and not married, but I know where your wife's head is at, and it is called Sex Addiction. You have to treat it like any other addiction. It's like drugs. There is actually a movie called "Addicted" if you want to watch it. It's the same situation. She HAS to go to counseling...
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    I'm unsure of what God wants me to do next...?

    1. Yes I have, and I am abstaining again until my wedding day. 2. I am trying for that. Right now he's a very hostile and confusing person so he's hard to talk to. Says he wants to recover but also try again in the future possibly. I am not holding him to that though. 3. We aren't considering...
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    I'm unsure of what God wants me to do next...?

    That actually makes sense. Thank you. I am abstaining from any serious relationships right now until that connection to him is severed. But I'm definitely moving on. It's just like I feel as if I can't because I want him. It's like I feel like we're in an old marriage I want to work on before we...
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    I'm unsure of what God wants me to do next...?

    I thought I was overreacting when I thought that. Good to know I'm not. I even brought that up to him before I left, but then he reminded me that sex to him isn't something he's going to have unless he's with me, or with a girl that makes him feel like she's me. And that another girl isn't what...
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    Looking for a christian mentor?

    I love that verse! c: It's actually one of my main goals to love others like Jesus loved us all(Even though I know it can't be done completely) :)
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    Looking for a christian mentor?

    Thanks for letting me know. c: I used it because I saw it earlier, researched it and then learned Christians adapted it for Christ's love for mankind(or some variation of that).
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    Looking for a christian mentor?

    Hi all! c: I am StriveForAgape! So I just joined this site today, and upon coming here, I was hoping that I could maybe find an older person to be a christian mentor? I am 20, going to be 21 in a week, and I have been saved since I was 16. All of my friends have been atheists, so I don't know...
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    Want to be friends but don't know what to do

    What I like to do is try to use social media to break the ice until face to face gets better. When I met my ex, we both were shy. But I found him on social media, and it was so much easier on there than it was in person. We went to school together and didn't talk face to face for about a week...
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    Looking To Become a Temple of the Holy Spirit

    Welcome! I hope you do find the group you are looking for! c:
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    I'm unsure of what God wants me to do next...?

    First off, I want to say hello to everyone! I am going through a very struggling time right now and I would really appreciate it if someone could help me. As of late last night, my fiance called things off with us. I have been with him officially for a year and a half, but we have had emotions...