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Recent content by StDamage

  1. StDamage

    Yet another young one dealing with a love predicament

    Thank you for the kind words! Since I have made this post I have made slow progress, but I feel like I am on the right path since I am trying to focus on something positive and also work on forgiveness! Accounting can sure keep you busy and have your mind focus on other things!
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    Yet another young one dealing with a love predicament

    For sure, I don't need to throw in the towel and not try. You never know what kind of person someone is until you really get to know them. I still try to seek out a women, of course if they believe in God. Short term and long term goals? I suppose I want something that may last for a long time...
  3. StDamage

    Yet another young one dealing with a love predicament

    I would say yes to all of that. I'm starting to intensely focus on myself to become a better and more successful person. I'm majoring in accounting, and I like to broaden my education into a bunch of subjects when I can (having time to read a book and take good notes). Thank you for the advice...
  4. StDamage

    Yet another young one dealing with a love predicament

    Thanks for the kind responses everyone! Some very good advice here, and I'll sure remember it. @The One guy who asked what I do away from home: I go to college and church and occasionly random stuff with other people. I try to surround myself with good people if I can. @Sketcher I am 19 in...
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    Yet another young one dealing with a love predicament

    This has been on my mind here as of late, and I can't stop thinking about it. My teenage years were horrid in terms of relationships. Barely any ladies were interested in me, and the only thing I would hear from ministers was that "men are dogs" and girls were "delicate creatures that needed...