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Recent content by SRAMS

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    Help me Believe again!!!!!!

    your welcome skie, just post 5 bogus threads, and you will be able to pm
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    Emotional Pain

    She has clearly moved on. She wants you to be there for her security thuogh. She wants to have something to fall back on. Dont do that to yourself.
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    Hurting more and more

    I agree with you on that note. You really cant come up with anything that will, or can make it better. I have these feelings inside that I have never felt before.... Ive been betrayed, and I feel like i wasnt good enough for her. That feeling, no matter what anyone else tells me, will not go...
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    Help me Believe again!!!!!!

    Im really sorry to hear your situation. It definately isnt a good one to be in. The fact is that this world we live in is cruel and hatefull and full of evil. The Bible says that satan owns this world, but not God's people. Bad things happen to really good people. One day you think everything is...
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    Emotional Pain

    Im sorry you have to experiance this kind of pain. Im in the same boat as you. I too am struggling with problems with my wife. All that I can tell you, and I need to take my own advise, is to keep looking forward and dont look back. As soon as you start thining about the good times, it makes...
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    Hurting more and more

    Lately I have been hurt by my wife. She cheated on me a little over a month ago while I was away from home. I am in the military and stationed over seas. I sent her home 2 days ago and every day that goes by gets harder and harder without her. She still emails me telling me how much she cares...
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    The Chat With Staff Coffee House....

    Reading this is inspirational.
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    New and needing guidance

    I have talked with the chaplain, but he is extremely busy. Thank you for the advise though.
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    New and needing guidance

    I dont want to go into great detail, but im 23 in the military and still currently married. I live in Okinawa Japan and just sent my wife home for something horrible she has done to me. I feel like I have no where to turn and I guess im looking for some support. I am a christian, and going...