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Recent content by softart

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    Suspected California gunman may have posted video warning of killings

    the men on singles forum could relate to this guy, lol.
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    Women, do you prefer men with no makeup?

    Twilight star....heartthrob of millions of girls.:amen:
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    A christian cannot be liberal, right?

    Since Christians believe in the fallen nature of man, our ideologies (social, political, etc) should be based on that. So one cannot be a christian and a liberal, right? You can't be against capital punishment since that seems fitting for the fallen man. You can't be for gay marriage since god...
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    How to deal with lust?

    I mean all-consuming lust. Like you're so attracted to certain women that you wanna 'devour' them. Not literally, lol, but you know what I mean - the animal attraction. How to deal with such a powerful thing, especially when you're single? At least with other emotions like anger etc., you can...
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    leaving singles

    What happened, exactly? Who are the people you believe you've 'ruined'? Be clear, OP, or nobody can help you. Even with the minimum details available, I feel that leaving the subforum seems like a drastic decision.
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    I give up on love

    You are right, thanks. I must try not to be shallow. Looks aren't everything. It is personality that counts.
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    Approaching a Girl

    You wanna be alpha or beta? Would you be this guy: or this guy?
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    Approaching a Girl

    You're only committing suicide, sorry to be blunt. If you become friends, that's all you'll ever be in her eyes. So when you suddenly drop the bomb - that is, ask her out - she'll not only be confused but offended that perhaps this was your intention all along. I hate to be blunt, but why...
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    Approaching a Girl

    Do you have a problem approaching just about any girl? Or only the girls you really, really like?
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    Has anyone heard from iemanuella lately?

    I agree she is a relatively hot bigot. But back to topic .... you want to reach out to non-Christians? Focus on forgiveness, compassion, and such sublime things. But if you want to antagonize them, make them hate you, then by all means continue your tirade against homosexuals. Enough said.
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    Approaching a Girl

    Don't talk to her with the intention of asking her out. If you do, you're going to be too tense, sound too artificial, and make a mess. Talk to her as if you'd talk to a guy friend of yours - be at east, natural and spontaneous. That way, you'll get her to like you, be friendly with you. Then...
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    Why do you believe?

    Thanks for the honesty. This is the kind of response I was looking for. Edit: I may not know that there is a god or heaven, but I hope there is. Else, life on earth (with the struggle, misery, disease, death, etc.) would be a meaningless tragedy. So in my case, there is no faith as such. It is...
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    I give up on love

    Thanks for your kindness.:pray: It means a lot.
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    Has anyone heard from iemanuella lately?

    As Christians, we ought to look in the mirror and see the hideous nature of OUR sin first. Then we can wax eloquent on the 'sins' of homosexuals, whatever they are. Something Jesus said about casting the first stone and all...... anyway, my point is that we should focus on the good things of the...