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Recent content by Shark

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    An update on my tragic marriage

    This might not be the right spot, but I wanted to post another update. Almost 20 years ago I posted this: Struggling with adultery. 10 years later I posted an update... We had recovered, had two kids, things had moved on to a better place. What I didn't know was around the very time I posted...
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    Struggling with adultery.

    So much of your post is true. I especially found interest in your point that there are many ways to "die". True, the fairy tale of marrying as virgins and living happily ever didn't go quite as planned. There was a lot of pain and there are still consequences. I tend to be overly optimistic...
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    Struggling with adultery.

    When I posted the story 10 years ago, I guess I was just wanting to vent. Today I find myself reminded of the past, and found some of my old writings, and wondered if this was still out on the internet. I'm also rather surprised that I remembered the password for my old account. Thought...
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    Struggling with adultery.

    This is a very adult situation. I know some of you are teenagers that read these messages, and I am advising you not to read this or comment on it. Thank you. I don't know what I expect from coming here--I suppose encouragement, and also catharsis. More than anything I would like to hear...