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Recent content by savinghopexx

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    Anxiety or Gods Voice

    How can I tell the difference between anxiety or Gods voice? Recently I felt like God may have been telling me no to going somewhere and I had severe anxiety over it but I know what I am doing is not sinful so Im stuck between knowing if He is telling me no for whatever reason or if I am just...
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    An ‘update’ in doing the right thing

    I would first repent to God for what you have done which you already did and try your best not to make those same mistakes. What have you done that requires you to confess to other people? If you sinned against someone by cursing at them then yes you should apologize to them but if you say...
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    Fasting

    Hello everyone, I have been having severe anxiety over wether or not I need to fast. Recently I felt like I love food too much. Specifically in regards to going out to eat or ordering out. I sometimes have felt like food is something I really desire and something that I also look forward to, to...
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    What to do

    I understand. I worry that I am going against my personal convictions since I personally do not like hearing a lot of cursing. But idk what else to do.
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    What to do

    I think Im going to give it a shot and watch it and if I do not like, not see it again.
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    What to do

    It is Hamilton. Idk how they would feel about that though because it was very expensive, and it would not be fair if they lost out on a lot of money.
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    What to do

    I am seeing a show in a couple weeks and one of my family members purchased the tickets for me. I know I should have researched the show before hand but the tickets were bought in a rush and I did not have time to do some research. Some people that I know have seen the show before that are...
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    Worrying about obeying God

    No, none of my plans are sinful it’s more of a punishment for myself. I think that if I can’t obey God in cancelling the plan then I should deny myself and not go.
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    Worrying about obeying God

    Recently I’ve been having sort of an odd worry. If I make plans with someone and it’s something I really want to do I worry if God will tell me to cancel the plans or event. I worry that if He does tell me not to go I won’t obey Him because I really wanted to go. I’ve never actually felt like...
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    Guilt from past sin

    I was reading something today about sin and how time doesn’t erase sin then I got worried. When I was applying to school in 2021 I wrote something in my application that wasn’t 100% honest and of course I repented for it then but now Im starting to feel guilty. I never confessed to the shoool or...
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    Anxiety&Overthinking

    Just about anything tbh. For example I could be really excited about hanging out with one of my friends and I will think in my head what if something comes up and we can’t hang out? And then my thoughts will spiral from there thinking about how I can still make it to them if the weather is bad, etc.
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    Anxiety&Overthinking

    I dont believe I have OCD but I know I have some OCD tendencies like overthinking and constantly worrying. I am worried that I am idolizing someone that I want to date. When I go online and look up if I am idolizing this person and find out that maybe I am not idolizing them I feel relieved and...
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    Afraid of idolization

    I am talking to a guy and I really like him we talk daily. Sometimes I get annoyed and upset when we argue and he doesn’t answer my texts. Is it bad that him not answering me has an impact on my emotions? It does make me annoyed but I try my best not to project it on others. I have had several...
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    Is this idolization?

    So you don’t think it’s idolization? I’m just worried that my emotions are too connected to the text message that I get from them but I’m not sure.
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    Is this idolization?

    I am talking to a guy and I really like him we talk daily. Sometimes I get annoyed and upset when we argue and he doesn’t answer my texts. Is it bad that him not answering me has an impact on my emotions? It does make me annoyed but I try my best not to project it on others. I have had several...