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Recent content by savedandforgiven

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    problem:boring boyfriend

    True, very true. I'm glad you've found that kind of love. I wish I could make up that emotion...I WANT to like him that way. He's amazing on paper and even in real life. I'm his ideal (or so he says) and that makes me want to like him even more. but unfortunately, I'm not sure if he's mine. On...
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    problem:boring boyfriend

    Thanks for all of the replies. I think what I mean is...he's kindof dry. I know it sounds awful. He has certain topics he likes to talk about and he will talk about anything but I usually decide what we talk about because otherwise we'd be silent most of the time. I hope I can accept it. I...
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    problem:boring boyfriend

    I have a wonderful boyfriend that loves God. He has a great job, goes to a great school, and treats me exceptionally well. He's smart, good-looking, and overall, a great catch. We have been dating for around seven months. Now, for the problem: he's kindof boring. No, this is not because the...
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    Deal breakers...

    after marriage: abuse before marriage: tons of things. I deserve someone that treats me with respect and if anything is really wrong, before marriage is the only opportunity to run.
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    Oh girls....

    Please be attentive to girl #1's feeling though. She may not realize that it's not working out and if you're suddenly with someone else so quickly...she might be hurt.
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    something for me to listen to

    the second song is a good dance with your dad...maybe at your wedding or something. lol.
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    something for me to listen to

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rnQMcQiuj7o
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    something for me to listen to

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WyoVJfADlwo
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    something for me to listen to

    East to West-Casting Crowns. actually, most songs by Casting Crowns. "If we are the Body", etc.
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    something for me to listen to

    a really nice song is "My Little Girl" by Tim Mcgraw...
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    Friends first?

    I think you should know the other person...to the point that you know whether or not they are a Christian, whether or not you are compatible, etc. but creating this huge "friendship" thing can be time-consuming and often leads to nowhere. I know up until last year I always said I would like to...
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    Friends first?

    Coach is right...ask your parents whether they were "friends first". I bet most will say no.
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    Living together-Sin?

    Is it ok to live together before we get married? Sometimes we break up and living together can definitely complicate the breakup. Sometimes we find someone new...how would you feel about someone that lived with their bf/gf before they met you? Would you date them? Living together, even with no...
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    No More Excuses - You're Single for a Reason

    if I'm expected to be "something" more than him in other ways.
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    No More Excuses - You're Single for a Reason

    I beg to differ...I do not want a man that is better looking than me. I want to be the one with the looks :) I also don't mind being the richer one or the "breadwinner" because I hopefully will be a career woman. I would like it if he were equally mature as me and I have to admit, I would love...