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Recent content by Rusar

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    God and prayers

    God answers prayers in many ways and sometimes that answer is no. For example, if you didn't prepare well for the exam, He's not going to divinely pass it for you. He very much loves us all, but He isn't a magician or good luck charm. He knows what is best for us. One example in my life was a...
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    Caught checking another girl out

    ITA!! It's creepy!
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    Please help me identify this

    Yes this is me! I have always felt others' emotions. It was overwhelming in my late teens and I successfully shut it down for many years but it's back. My life has completely turned around now from where I was just a few years ago and I am much closer to God than I was. God is very definitely...
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    Caught checking another girl out

    It's a matter of respect. If he respected you, he would not do such. If this is the first time, I say forgive and allow him to redeem himself. However, if this is his pattern, you will end up very insecure and with low self esteem and you shouldn't put up with it. Blessings!
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    Please help me identify this

    Thank you! I'm learning a lot really fast. I can remember a few years back having frequent "premonitions" but they stopped for quite a while. I was scared and amazed then. The time that I remember most was when I saw what I needed to avoid a wreck about 3 miles before I got to it.
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    good luck?

    IME, yes. I often correct DH when he says he's lucky lol
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    Please help me identify this

    Over the past few months, I've noticed that I "know" things. Upon finding out about a pregnancy, I had the unbidden thought that it wasn't viable. That would be the biggest one. Other thoughts have been small insignificant things. I haven't asked for this, I did pray for discernment, but that...
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    Tackling our weaknesses

    Glad to know I'm not the only one! I recently heard this saying: "fear is the opposite of faith" and it rings true for me. I worry about worrying. We will all face fears and worries, and ideally we would feel the check in our spirit and turn to Christ for comfort. By doing that, we increase our...
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    Hi!

    Thank you all!
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    Hi!

    Thank you!
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    Hi!

    I'm so glad I found this forum! Read some very interesting stuff about dreamcatchers, destroyed one and had my 8yo son tell me his room felt more peaceful. Awesome! I'm learning so much! I've been saved since I was 7, however, I didn't truly come to know Christ until about 3.5 years ago. I'm now...