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Recent content by runningair

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    Why do nice guys finish last???

    When you grow up full of insecurities, all you know how to do is be nice. I know what it's like to be this way. All along you try to act in a Christ-like way and not say or do something out of anger, no matter how poorly you are treated. There is a definite double standard here. The same...
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    Why do nice guys finish last???

    Girls going for the bad guys is, IMHO, a sign of immaturity on their part. Years ago I went through a lot of depression because of the ways I was treated (i.e. rejected or put down) as a good guy by good girls because I didn't fit the acceptable stereotype they wanted. At a certain age, women...
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    Help with names

    Thanks for the responses everyone. Despite the tone of my post, I'm not really worried, I was just trying to "paint the picture" so to speak, for everyone to understand. What makes this situation unique is that my mom in particular will be excited to know someone else with the same name. This...
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    Help with names

    I'm going to take a girl out this weekend who has the same name as my mother, only spelled differently. Their names are a little unusual, which probably makes this a little more complicated. Of course, there is that thought in the back of my head saying, "what if we keep seeing each other, or...
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    Leaving SoCal for good

    How many of you are hoping to leave Southern California (and California itself) for good? Well, I am one of those people. I would like to move to either Arizona, Nevada, or Colorado. And I would like to accomplish this within the next few years. You might think I'm really bitter, but...