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Recent content by rtrulock

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    Help on 1 Corinthians 7:10-11

    “A wife must not separate from her husband” NIV. In what ways does separate mean? Legally? Physically? Mental, emotional, romantic ? Financially? I’ve been married for almost ten years now and I feel I have changed as a person over time, while my husband has not. I want to live differently...
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    Can God make my husband unlazy?

    that doesn't work, the mess just builds up until i do something :(
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    Can God make my husband unlazy?

    Let’s just say it goes in one ear and out the other.
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    Can God make my husband unlazy?

    I have.
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    Can God make my husband unlazy?

    I am tired of being the only one who does housework. His lifestyle rubs off on me sometimes. If I pray everyday for my husband to not be lazy and do more to help, can He undue 30+ years of this behavior? I’m at my wits end and just want to live by myself. We both work and he is not a believer...
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    Would it be okay if...

    Would it be okay if I lived apart from my spouse. I know the bible says not to separate from your husband but I am depressed living in our apartment. I do not feel like it is my home anymore. I have managed to clutter it up with lots of things and it is overwhelming to look at everyday. It...
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    I don’t want to live with my husband.

    Hi everyone. This is something that has been in my thoughts for a couple of years at least. I love my husband, who is a nonbeliever. I just don’t want to share a space with him. We have different personalities and living styles. I do not want a divorce and want to stay married till death...