Recent content by RochelleBelle

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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    Thanks! I'm praying for the same thing. :D I've accepted that if he was supposed to be in my life right now, he would. So, until I meet him...I'll just keep growing, spiritually, and fulfilling God's will for my life. (<--I'll continue to do that after I meet him...but I'm sure you get what I'm...
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    Thank you for all of the responses! I'm glad to hear there are other older virgins out there. Nice to know I'm not alone! :P Actually, I know I'm not alone but when it comes to everyday life, most people are not virgins. No one has ever made fun of me for being a virgin. Most people seem to...
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    Being Thankful..

    I'm thankful for God leading me to a new job (that I like/wanted) in this crazy recession. PRAISE GOD!!!
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    Awe...did someone get bitten by the sweet bug? :D *Yes, I had a screenname change--CF mods didn't think it was very Christianlike. :P :cool:
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    Email fwd/devotional (from Gotquestions.org) in my inbox today: ____________________________________ Title: Will you take up your cross? Question: "What did Jesus mean when He said, “Take up your cross and follow Me” (Matthew 16:24; Mark 8:34; Luke 9:23)?" Answer: Let’s begin with what Jesus...
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    Hey! Wow...this thread really took off, huh? Well, a lot of posters assumed I would randomly give it away to a guy I just met. No, I would not do that; I would wait to have sex with someone I was in love with (<--this was my thought when I posted this thread). I wasn't thinking about jumping...
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    I do not understand why people say that. People always say, "Oh...I wish I would have waited"...yet, they're not living an abstinent lifestyle. :confused: You're right! Like I told Vicky, that's what my ex used to call me when he was joking around (I think it stems from the show Pretty Little...
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    Great response! Thanks. :D Yes, yes, I know...good thing I'm not a troll, huh? What's up w/ the troll assumptions? I guess this was a ridiculous question... Do not mind me--Maybe I'm just having a pre-30's moment. :o (<--and the fact that I just met another guy and he basically said...
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    To everyone else, thank you for the responses. I guess I knew people wouldn't say, "Oh yeah! Give it up!" on a Christian forum...I just posted this thread because I feel alone on this issue. Although I've been a Christian since 8yrs old, my family thinks I need to "get with the program"...along...
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    Much better. You can call it a ridiculous question if you want to, but it's definitely not a rhetorical question. And if you're so annoyed by my ridiculous question, you should have just skipped over this ridiculous thread. Just sayin'! :cool:
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    Sorry, not a troll. I have better things to do than to pretend I'm a 30 yr old virgin. Really? Concerning my screenname, this is actually what my ex-boyfriend used to call me when we were joking around. And, fyi...my OP is not a rhetorical question--A rhetorical question is something like, "Oh...
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    No. I'm completely serious! I know what I should do but for some reason, I've started to wonder if I was taking this issue a little too seriously.
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    30-Year-Old Virgin: Time to say NO to Abstinence?

    I'm a Christian (have been since 8yrs old and rededicated my life to God during college) and I've always wanted my first time to be with my husband. Well, now, I'm almost 30 years old, do not have a husband in sight and I'm still a virgin. I figured I'd be married by now. :doh: I've dated a lot...