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Recent content by RitaB

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    Can I reconcile with my ex-husband after divorce?

    The verbal abuse was there but mild to moderate. I believe he has changed as a person. But thank you for your recommendation. I am mtg. with a mutual friend of me and my ex-husband tonight to discuss the above and next steps, if any. But, why do you think new girlfriend is bothering me so much??
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    Can I reconcile with my ex-husband after divorce?

    Thanks for your reply. Well I believe I have grown a lot and have grown to be more independent. It has been a growing experience. I think counseling is a great suggestion for myself. However, he does have this girlfriend. Shouldn't I let him know how I feel before he and she become too...
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    Can I reconcile with my ex-husband after divorce?

    Here is my story... After 15 years of marriage I told my husband that I wanted to separate. So we separated in July of 2013, divorce was legal in Dec. 2014. I wanted the divorce b/c I was unhappy, he refused counseling up until then, verbally abused me at times and basically was an...