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Recent content by RDouglas

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    About mature men

    One question: Is this about mature men, or older men? There's a difference you know :)
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    Christian Women...

    Dear Lord, please let this die :prayer:
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    Why can't people just be attracted to whoever they are attracted to?

    I view it from a different perspective. She's better off without him. Positive result? Yes. Does it change my opinion of him? Not really.
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    Sad, really

    And you're free to do so. I'd ask one question though. Ever done something you needed to be forgiven for? If so, were you? You see, normally I don't care that much about what anyone thinks of me, unless they're someone I feel I could have some regard and/or respect for. For what it's...
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    Why can't people just be attracted to whoever they are attracted to?

    Valid, to a point. A friend of mine had a significant other who most people would call cute, and who anyone that got to know her dearly loved because she was one of the sweetest people you'd ever meet. My friend wound up tossing her aside for a "hot chick" who was a selfish...um...person...
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    Are women ever completely willing, knowing agents of evil?

    Anyone can be (women included).
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    Getting shot down because of one's race

    Okay, one exception to this rule. Lorena Bobbitt was originally from Ecuador. During the time when she was on trial for performing unnecessary plastic surgery on her husband, one hundred women back in her home country swore a pledge that if she were convicted, they'd go on a "holy war"...
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    "Your eyes are so beautiful..."

    College girlfriend of mine was feeling down on herself and compared herself to an amoeba. I told her, "Well honey, you sure do have some great pseudopods." She gave me quite the dirty look for that :doh: (it was meant as a compliment) :sorry:
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    Getting shot down because of one's race

    I haven't been shot down for being a West Virginian with Scottish family history (yet). For what it's worth, I've dated an asian girl, dated a hispanic girl and came pretty close to dating a black girl. Also palled around with a deaf girl (not a race, but you get the idea). Still, I don't...
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    Sad, really

    No show. He gets paid for his advice. I dispense mine free on the internet, and it's defiinitely worth the price :doh: I guess what it's a testament to is that in the end, you have to be who you are. And like I said, this is me. (or at least a reasonable facsimile)
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    Dishonesty in rejection.

    I'm not a big fan of people passing the buck for their relationship decisions to God.
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    Sad, really

    Guy I know has a photoshopped picture of Dr. Phil. It's his face on a book cover. The title of the book is "More advice I pulled out of my (take a guess)"
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    Sad, really

    Dr. Phil specifically? No. Mr. Advice Guy? Yes :preach: It seems to be my lot in life, and I don't really mind that. The downside is that we "advice guys" (and girls) often find ourselves with noone to turn to when we need advice. Still, it's who I am :sigh:
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    what's a BAD date?

    I'm not a big fan of April 15th. Oh wait, that wasn't what you meant :sorry:
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    About mature men

    Dance lessons? I'd like to learn ballroom myself. I can't speak for trends other than my own. My current trend is that I'm iffy on having a relationship because I'm hoping to move sometime in the next year. A lot of guys don't discuss "goals". They prefer to just let stuff happen. With...