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Recent content by Ralf624

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    How Many Years Does It Take?

    Hi, I know you posted this in September. I hope that things have gotten a bit better. I can't offer you a guarantee you mention it's been years. (I'm having a hard time putting this in words). I don't want to give you a so story. I am sure you know how divorced people feel. It's hard on all...
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    Walking away, I don't see God's love or favor.

    I lost friends when I turn to God is what I meant. Because I no longer wanted the life I had they distance themselves.
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    Walking away, I don't see God's love or favor.

    No, I don't want that life anymore despite my anger I did grow up I see the value in one person and I don't want that life as before. I lost friend and people think I change and I have as I mentioned before I am grateful but it's hard and I see the people who have hurt me moving on and doing...
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    Walking away, I don't see God's love or favor.

    I am sorry I was not thinking I would get many replies. I'm not sure what you mean by method of praying. Part of me just doesn't care anymore I feel done I feel if he gave up then he doesn't deserve my devotion. I know I am wrong I know is like child pouting I'm just tire please understand. I am...
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    Walking away, I don't see God's love or favor.

    After my mother passed from cancer her wish was for me to search him, I have had previous relationship that failed and left me broken so she wanted me to forgive. I want to say this was my start but it was not. Year later I got married and now divorce it was during this time where I changed get...
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    Walking away, I don't see God's love or favor.

    It's been two years now. I don't have faith anymore and the hope that I had left was taken away. I have prayed prayed even before my two year journey, when my life was in turmoil and I didn't know God I recall breaking bdown then and saying Lordfather if your there please help. And nothing as I...
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    Walking away, I don't see God's love or favor.

    Hello, I have been posting here at the forums for about two weeks. If this is in the wrong section please move, at this point it doesn't really matter if it gets close or not. I have been struggling with my faith for a while now actually I have always been rebellious about it I always question...
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    Prayers for someone who caused me great hurt. Help

    @LastAcorn99 I have been praying and asking God. But I'm starting to draw away. I was going to church but the past two Sundays I was there at service but not present. In one of those I was condemning god. After that I haven't gone, I feel he is unjust, unfair. In the story of the prodigal son...
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    Prayers for someone who caused me great hurt. Help

    I am trying I really am. But I also think what would be the righteous thing to do. In a certain situation I wanted not to say anything encouraging I wanted to be spiteful my heart said they deserve it but deeper inside I felt something saying be bigger show them different. So I said as vaguely...
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    Four Eyes Club

    I started when I was 16-17. I have lost a few pairs and gone years with out them but needed them. :pensive: I stretch them out always. To the point where it's a bother to wear them. But it's my second pair of eyes lol.
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    Pray for our marriage

    Father help this family, what ever trial and troubles they have help them be a marriage after your own heart, touch her heart and touch his heart. In marriage papa there isn't a winner and loser it's a team father and hard work so papa please help them guide them. Don't let their human instinct...
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    Been attacked by the devil or demon for years.. please just ask god to take it from me.

    You ever wonder why "evil" things have to go through such theatrics? Why they need to haunt? Many depiction of Hollywood or other mediums is always visual to create fear to make us believe to see. Seen is believing. I my self often find myself asking the father "Lord, give me sign be just. If...
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    Prayers for someone who caused me great hurt. Help

    Thanks for sharing that I actually have been following Michael criswell(sp) for a bit. His testimony and things he has gone through are something else.
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    Alzheimer's ...husband

    I am really glad your there for your husband. I noticed that the post is from a few months back but I m also glad you mention your situation improve. I ask God in this very moment as I type this to send you strength, patience, and the resources you seek and need.
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    Prayers for someone who caused me great hurt. Help

    This is difficult for me, I don't want to do it because I want to make my self feel righteous. I don't want it to feel force or untrue. This person has told me things that really hurt, has done things that really hurt, and continues to do these things maybe just to cause harm or not. But I have...