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Recent content by RainChick

  1. RainChick

    Lets see those baby bumps!

    I'm not very far along yet, 14 weeks atm. But here's a picture anyway. :D
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    Who's tops (one for the men and one for the women)

    It's odd that the ladies you picked are from ages ago, yet the men are more recent. Anywho! :) I'd say Brad Pitt. He's cute and has a family and hasn't left them. Though I'm not so into the fact that he doesn't believe in God. =/ But based on looks only, yeah.
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    I just got married!

    Aww kawaii! :D Congratulations to you both!
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    Loneliness in a marriage?

    I get lonely in my marriage too! I'll tell him I'm lonely, and he just says "But why? I'm right here". I don't know how to explain it to him..
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    minimizing your spouses concerns

    I'm sorry you're going through this! :hug: My Hubby doesn't do this, but my parents did this my whole life. And I ended up in the hospital several times because they thought every illness was nothing important and I went untreated. It sucks!
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    insecurity

    I say if you're not ready, tell him these doubts you are having. He needs to understand that you need time to be able to settle down and get comfortable with the idea. :)
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    Is it normal to still feel you married the wrong person after 5 years?

    Hey Canadian_Eh! Here's a big hug for you hun! :hug: I get what you're saying, and I think you're not shallow for maybe not liking what you see! It's human to feel that way. You're wanting more from your husband romantically, and feel left out from the rest of the world who has this romance. I...
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    Lets Get it Goin'

    I'm kind of curious what happened to make such a commotion. Can someone PM me the details? I'm glad it's back, but I'm shocked all the posts are gone. :o Separating the ages could be cool, but seems a bit unnecessary at the moment. What do you guys think of the new setup?
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    Love.

    Have you heard anything from her yet? I hope things work out peacefully! It's sounds to me like she's pulling away from you, probably to keep from hurting you. If she's dealing with her sexuality than she probably doesn't find guys very attractive at the moment, and attraction is a big part of...
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    First Thread! Woohoo!

    A new section, how fun! ^_^ How is everyone? Btw, what ever happened to the Teen forum? I can't find it. Did they get rid of it?
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    How much did you gain w/ your pregnancy?

    :wave: I hope no one finds this question to be TMI or offensive in anyway, but how much did you all gain from your pregnancy? My Hubby and I are trying to conceive, but I like knowing ahead of time what's going to happen. hehe. The Dr said 35lbs for the whole pregnancy is good, but I didn't know...
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    Something to know if you're TTC!

    Hey ladies! :wave: My Hubby and I have been trying to conceive for about 6 months now, and only just now have I found out that the KY jelly (and almost every lotion/lubricant out there) has spermicidal in it. So basically, if the sperm comes into contact with the lotion, it immobilizes it so...