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Recent content by QueSeraSera

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    Are dishwashers really necessary?

    Dishwasher for our family . Maybe once we shrink more it will be more practical to hand wash . The other thing too hand washing uses more water and energy . What Uses More Water: A Dishwasher or Hand Washing? | eHow
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    She does sound amazing . :)
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    Love that ! About a month ago I had my grandson and I figured out ?Why not use the garage wall as a canvas ? Paint and color whatever we want . It has all kinds of dents and holes in it (needs to be resheet rocked and painted) so why not decorate it in the meantime ? Like we were getting to do...
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    Yes my friend and I that I mentioned ended up spending most our time at my house. Where we were allowed to play dress up , play my mothers record albums ,EAT LOL>>> Our entire front dining room was a playroom . We had everything . Easy bake oven , chalkboards you name it we had it . I hated...
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    I agree that is a low blow . And besides that even if a mother has a realistic choice (to stay home or not ) if she chooses to work because SAH she finds quite unfullfilling and she is just not cut out for it that is not "abandonment."
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    I've seen that too . I had a neighbor like that growing up . I was rarely allowed in her house but when I was we were not allowed to sit on certain furniture, fix anything to eat, etc. We could play in her room but we were not allowed to sit on the bed because it would wrinkle the bedspread . I...
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    I completely agree . Yet he can feel "massively" unappreciated because she seemed to not be grateful enough to him for organizing a pantry ? A lot more had to go into not to mention its far more important that its ridiculous to even compare them into bonding with 5 step children .
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    This is what I was asking . What is placing of family first . And specifically gender wise because he has that as the woman's priority.
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    The thing with the pantry incident for me is its unrealistic to expect that the average person would think that is such a big ordeal that needs all this gratitude in the first place. You said you felt "massively unappreciated" .It really sounds over the top dramatic to have such a reaction over...
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    That's another good point Valley Gal I think I tried to point that out before. Working outside the home for a woman is no less putting her family first than a man working outside the home .
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    Its actually quite confusing what Muse has said .He said he had no issue with wives /moms working as long as her #1 priority was husband ,kids and "keeper of the home." Well sorry the same exact thing can be said about the husband . The only alternative is that the husbands first priority is...
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    This is crucial . Yes pray about it . A lot.
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    My DIL acted like she was a martyr for staying home for 10 weeks (she had a c-section ) for having my grandaugher in June. She will actually look at me and say I KNOW ! I was at home for 10 WEEKS ! She's serious . She is saying that to me . I just laugh .
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    I was a little bit the other way around. But for the lack of appreciation and the fact I didn't earn any money I was like a duck in water at home with kids. I was never miserable .(maybe exhausted and unappreciated ) . But had energy and eagerness about my day .I was really a natural and did...
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    More and More lazy stay at home wives

    :thumbsup: Very needy .