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Recent content by Precarious

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    Porn Threat?

    OK, I'm getting confused. Men, if you were the man cought viewing porn would you, in hindsight, rather your wife talk to you about this or what? And if so, how should she aproach you with this?
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    Porn Threat?

    Thank you all so much for the various replies. Now I see why I am back and forth on if I should discuss this now, LOL. Their is a viariety on how to approach or not approach. All appreciated as well. Thanks again. I really have a peace about not bringing this up now. Hopefuly my feelings aren't...
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    Porn Threat?

    Thank you JMRE5150, I am back and forth on if I should talk to my husband about this. My earthly responce would have been to be angry, resentful, bitter and just aweful to live with. I have none of those feelings with this. Now, I have a worry but it is not consuming me. A sure sign God is...
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    Porn Threat?

    undefinedundefined Thank you, I realize it was wrong of me to look. That has also been playing on my conscious. I normally don't snoop, I had a good idea what was going on and I also know if I had asked him about this he would have lied to me as he has always done in the past.
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    How often do you want sex

    Daily, at least once. Married 8 years, 3 kids.
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    Porn Threat?

    Thank you so much for your reply. Those were some fears of mine. I can't help but wonder if he is needing something I'm not giving him. I think if anything I am too submissive. I know he is the only one that can answer that but I'm afraid if I talk to him now, I will get too upset and make it...
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    Porn Threat?

    My question is geared to mature male Christians tho ladies oppinions are also appreciated. I have been happily married for 8 years now. We have 3 young kids, overall things are good in our marriage. Recently my husband seems to be loosing interest in going to church. He usually works on...