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Recent content by okron

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    What Do I Do Now?

    Joyfull, Are the women in that issue beautiful - yes, can it lead to other fantacies/problems - yes, do you need to have a talk with your son - yes, would I watch very carefully his computer activity - absolutely. But understand that he may not understand where it can lead him at this point and...
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    reading his e-mails

    By "second chance" I don't mean they cannot be forgiven... just don't give them unrestricted access, in our case I should have moved the PC, restricted access, etc
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    reading his e-mails

    Don’t give your son or daughter too much rope or a second chance. I have a son who we caught looking at porn and went thru punishment of 3 mo off computer, read thru Every Young Man’s Battle, father-son talks etc. Thought it all sunk in as he was saying all the right things, yet he continued...
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    My baby is in trouble

    Find a new sitter. It doesn't sound like you trust her based on her recent actions and her past. There is no room for error here....this is your child and her safety comes before any concerns about hurting someone's feelings.
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    What Do I Do Now?

    This forum certainly shows the positive aspects of the internet.... I really appreciate all the input, your comments and my research has eased some (but certainly not all) of my concerns. He has read the book "Every Young Man's Battle" and I believe it did help but that was a year ago and it's...
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    What Do I Do Now?

    Tweet, Thanks for the input, I was reading some today about teens and their drama which along with your comments gives me a little more peace about the situation. Thanks again:)
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    What Do I Do Now?

    Lawton, ...when you say start a boys only group....the Sunday bible study (Sunday School) class is only boys or are you referring to a special study on the topic?
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    What Do I Do Now?

    Cookie Thanks for your input, my wife who just read all the stuff I read early this morning so she is hot. We'll pray about it and make decisions later. Hopefully I'll get some more input (I do appreciate the comment about having a good kid...needed reminding of that.)
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    What Do I Do Now?

    New poster here....wish I wasn't coming with such a heavy heart. My son is 15 and we have had previous problems with porn, lying (mostly normal teen stuff), and a single inappropriate action with a girl. We dealt with each instant severely I thought and had hoped he was on the right track...