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Recent content by OhhJim

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    lists?

    So, you're saying if a Godly man who loved you came along, you'd marry him, no matter what he looked like? No matter how stupid he was? No matter how boring? No matter how underemployed, and underambitious, and how much you disagreed on having and raising kids? No matter what disabling disease...
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    lists?

    You, too, huh? Frankly, I'm wondering why a woman who is so wonderful that she gets checkmarks next to all those items on a list, would want with ME! I mean, my list is short: 1. Christian 2. Attractive enough 3. Intelligent 4. Fun/Adventurous 5. Not psycho And I can't find someone like...
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    What Men Want

    Yup, it's a wonderful list, all right. You ever met any woman, anywhere, any place, any marital situation, who was all 10? I sure haven't. In fact, I don't think I've met one who was 8 of the 10. I notice that "attractiveness" isn't on your list. Where does that fall, if at all?
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    Any Gormet Chefs out Their?

    Most of the happily married men I know, can't cook much. So, you may be on the right track. Don't let anyone tell you that women love a man who can cook, because they marry the ones who can't. Makes sense, once you think about it. If a man can't cook, and his wife can cook a mean piece of...
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    Solana's Illusion Of Self-importance?

    Name one "snap judgment" I have made. And if you can't, please stop accusing me of making them. It's interesting how you accuse me of being stubborn, when I'm the one saying I don't know who the AC is, and you're the one insisting you do. Oh, you'll say you're not, but you really do think it's...
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    Has The Mark Of The Beast Started?

    I think that, before the Mark, there has to actually be a Beast.
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    Has The Mark Of The Beast Started?

    The flaw in this reasoning is that people were able to buy or sell without using coins with Nero's picture. They simply used other coins in circulation at the time. Nero didn't remove all coins without his picture from circulation. Besides that, there were other, non-Roman coins in use at the...
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    Has The Mark Of The Beast Started?

    Then why would John mention that people can't buy or sell without it? What does the blood of Jesus have to do with buying and selling?
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    Empty town?

    So, why don't all you people move somewhere where there are more single people? There ARE such places, you know. Even if you can't pick up and move tomorrow, you can start doing things that will allow you to move in the near future. In 1989, I moved from the Bay Area to San Diego. I didn't...
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    Solana's Illusion Of Self-importance?

    I see that what you said has little to do with what I said. No. I have no desire to read Peters' book. I've read enough of his writing to know where he's coming from. What is his book going to tell me that I don't already know? I haven't read the Left Behind series, either. I have, however...
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    Pope acknowledges colonial injustice in Americas

    No, if you haven't totally forgotten your previous post (go look it up, I'll wait) the point is that there are different standards for different people. I expect different behaviour from the US government than I do from the Iranian government, for example. Besides, if Jesus espoused this view...
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    Iraq or Anna Nicole?

    I would imagine that Fox knows its audience well, and wants to devote time to subjects its audience wants to hear about.
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    California Split: 57 More Job Cuts at 'L.A. Times'

    Is this remarkable in some way? Oh, look, a butterfly! ~~~~
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    Aha moment about the type of man i'm looking for...though unrealistic

    I should imagine so. So, what's the purpose of marriage? Is it a way to reward ourselves, by getting the perfect person for us? Is it to receive validation for ourselves? Is it to fulfill needs? Are there other reasons? In the past, it was much more difficult, if not nearly impossible, to...
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    What Men Want

    I disagree. I don't see that one leads to the other. I know women who can make me smile, but are unable to get out of most situations.