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Recent content by Oceansedge

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    Cutting ties with my father

    Believe me, I realize how much I have to be thankful for. I lead a pretty charmed life. Believe it or not, this all has some small relevance to my father. Just because my life is charmed does not mean it doesn't have it's flaws. Anything that we have in our life we have worked extremely hard to...
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    Cutting ties with my father

    So you know my life? I am devastated over my mother's death and how quickly my father moved on. I know it seems strange that at age 49 I should still need my dad's affection but I do and he does not show it, but does to his new wife. I have had a lot on my plate in the last two years. There is...
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    Cutting ties with my father

    You know what, you are absolutely right. The feelings of not fair have no place in adult life. I guess all I can do is concentrate on my family and take my father as he comes. I have way more to worry about then my grown dad. These feelings may come and haunt me from time to time, but that one...
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    Cutting ties with my father

    I am almost 49 years old. I am married and I have two teenage children. The last two years of my life, everything I know has changed. I lost my mother to cancer October 31, 2015. Since her death my whole, neat and tidy little world has changed. I have taken her place in the family. My father is...