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Recent content by obibask

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    I cant give myself to my husband.

    Hi, are you wishing you could get out of this mess by 1. he leaving? 2. he being absent like being in prison? 3. he dying? Is it that you don't want to initiate the divorce? Just wanted a clarification. All the best.
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    Dangerous Temptations (Long)

    Hi Sis, "how can a God fearing ...be so torn?" Exactly b'cos u r God fearing, Fight On! "What to do?" Flee, can u keep red hot coals in ur bossom and not be burnt? "None of the obvious answers..." The answers indeed are obvious and simple, but diffcult for most of us to implement. May the...
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    Please Respond - Domestic violence and divorce - Merged

    Hi, may the peace of the Lord be your guide in our fallen world. As for me I will be out of the door at the earliest opportunity in this situation, and remarry if I found it necessary, I have my peace with the Lord, my judge. Warmest Regards.
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    Sharing Email

    Hi All, you opinions on the following will be highly appreciated. Should we be sharing our email passwords with our partners? Blessings, Obibask.
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    Topless/Nude Beach?

    Hi All, If I remember very well I read somewhere that overexposure (and what constitutes over exposure? it's cultural I supose) to the opposite sex diminishes our response to sex stimuli to that point that we may need drugs to respond effectively and perform.
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    Never...always?

    Hi, and one wise experienced couple also said we should learn to say I'm sorry. Regards.
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    PRAYER ALERT - terrorist attack in London

    Hi, our condolences to all those affected. Our love and prayers for Londeners and for world peace. Regards.
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    Advice for much younger man in a marriage

    Hi, How blessed u are! Stay Blessed. Regards.
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    Will husbands sacrifice so moms can stay at home?

    Hi Selune, great, if u have these facilities then lets encourage the kids to use them if the can make the grades. Lets help them to set these goals. Goals to achieve excellence wheather in the arts, sports, academics, whatever. Best Regards.
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    Will husbands sacrifice so moms can stay at home?

    Hi, this gives us a better insight. If you can't afford that's ok. But I guess we shouldn't punish the children for the sins of their uncles. For every 1 guy who misuses the opportunity of university education, 9 or so others make the best of it and go on to harvest handsome rewards in the...
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    Will husbands sacrifice so moms can stay at home?

    Hi We keep the doors closed if we deny them university/college education. Give them the opportunity to be a car mechanic or a researcher in the latest developments in medcine. Give them the opportunity to choose. Initially I thought the argument for staying home was for the children, but now I...
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    Angry today..

    Hi, the pain of infidelity is such that the otherwise forgiving christian religion even allows divorce on that grounds. It's not something to be taken lightly. Not only are you to forgive, u need healing yourself. Yes, healing from the extreme pain and disappointment, from the shame...
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    Working on things..

    Hi, we wish you well and may the Good Lord keep you through these difficult moments.
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    Love Thy Neighbor Jezebel?

    Hi, there is not much u can do regarding this woman's action, except maybe taking a few shots and reporting her to the police for indecent exposoure. There is however everything u and ur husband can do to protect ur marriage. If ur husband likes what he sees and would want to go for it, big...
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    Please help me help my husband

    Hi, I am amazed at your readiness to forgive and your willingness to stay and make your marriage work, you are an angel. The goog Lord and your will will see you through. Cheer up.