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Recent content by NoRoadsLeft

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    Confusing Fight with Masturbation

    Hey all, I'm Mikey—24. First off, I'd like to state I think masturbation is, at its face value, potentially sinful. It can lead to definite sins such as lust or adultery. As per that belief, I've been engaging in a personal abstinence challenge involving the avoidance of masturbation and...
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    Advice For Pregnancy

    This was so helpful and encouraging, thank you so much. As for my girlfriend: we have been together for a little over a year and a half. She recently got a job as a teller at U.S. Bank. We've discussed marriage for awhile now, but we were waiting until I was graduated from college so we could...
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    Advice For Pregnancy

    Trust me, we have both repented dearly. It's hard for me to feel like this is happening. I've struggled with deep depression in my life, so it's hard not to return to that state of mind. When I first heard this news, I was in shock and, for awhile, considered ending my life. But that was a...
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    Advice For Pregnancy

    I'm a devoted Christian. I've had my share of trials, at only age 19. My girlfriend is almost certainly pregnant. I am responsible for my actions, and I am suffering for them. I desperately need loving, Christian advice on how to handle this whole situation. When my parents find out, they will...
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    I See No More Options

    Thank you all for your kind words. I am so very scared. I don't know what to do if she is pregnant. I'm struggling with properly supporting her, because I have been so consumed with my own fear. I need to trust in God's plan, but I hardly have the courage to do that right now.
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    I See No More Options

    I really appreciate your encouraging words. This has potentially been the scariest time of my life. It's also been a wake-up call. I also understand the possibility of there being a positive outcome, but I feel wrong about misusing the Lord's gifts the way I did. When I have a family, I want to...
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    I See No More Options

    My girlfriend is also a Christian and 19 as well. I've just been so afraid of the consequences that come from it. I would have to leave college, or she suggested adoption, which I know would be the only other option, but would certainly come back to haunt me. I wanted parenthood to come at the...
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    I See No More Options

    My name is Mikey, and I am a firm follower of Christ at 19 years-old. I attend private Christian University Corban in Salem, Oregon. From childhood to now, I have not lived well. We have always been poor. I've come into a strong and genuine relationship with Christ in the past couple years...