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Recent content by MzSmith

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    Husband keeps telling me to leave in disagreements-rough disciplin

    Whenever my husband and I have disagreements between us or about my boys (which is often), he ends up telling me to leave and that he doesn't want me. He also throws and breaks things in the house. I can't say a word to him when his temper is flaring, then when he's calmed, he always says "well...
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    A little lengthy, but I am in need of prayer/advice

    For those who asked how to change me...I've done everything he has asked me to...wear lingerie and heels around the house, toys, extra assertive, etc. Just as someone posted--it is not enough because it is ultimately not what he wants.
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    A little lengthy, but I am in need of prayer/advice

    A short while after we were married, my husband decided we needed to spice up our sex life. His suggestion was to try the swinger's lifestyle and other acts (have others watch us, be watched, etc.). I was strictly against this and the heavy arguments began. I eventually gave in (much to my...
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    Submit or avoid son

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    Submit or avoid son

    Yes, I am standing up and continuing to see and text my son on my terms. This is in no way Christ like to alienate my child. I'm praying it doesn't destroy the marriage. I love my son and want to see him.
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    Submit or avoid son

    His actions are not and I question his beliefs about many things that are happening, not just concerning my son.
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    Submit or avoid son

    Two years ago, my then 16 year old son and husband were involved in a physical altercation. It was clearly my son's fault. Law enforcement was called, my son served community services, and he ended up living with his Dad. Long story short, my son has not apologized to my husband (his step...