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    do I resent my husband...?

    That's for this... I'll have a watch later on. I really don't want to our marriage in its own right is beautiful. But to me its about not holding onto what was and evolving into this season in love, together. Like you said.... it is for a time...
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    do I resent my husband...?

    I guess there is a stigma attached to asking for help... I put it down to pride. When we do spend time & I do get a regular break there is nothing better than being with my kids & serving my family. I enjoy it thoroughly...! but moving forward we have agreed to meet with our Pastor and reduce...
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    do I resent my husband...?

    Thanks for this. It really does come down to communication I guess
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    do I resent my husband...?

    Very difficult. We were both very young when my son was born & while it is a difficult transition & massive adjustment... to be a good parent.......? ...it's a no brainer.
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    do I resent my husband...?

    This is true! 24/7 job... We do discuss it and he is so understanding, but I also feel quite selfish..... am I justified in asking him to sacrifice time time serving the Lord so I can take a break? Other women struggle with their husbands spending too much time with friends/work or even at the...
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    do I resent my husband...?

    I pray so! My relationship with God has changed and I worry about it... I was at a point I had audibly heard His voice, I would have prophetic dreams And now, after marriage & kids & caring for the home, I barely get any time to pray! My worship & devotional time is always diluted due to...
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    do I resent my husband...?

    Thank you. So encouraging to know it's not just us!
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    do I resent my husband...?

    Thank you very much. It is so very worth it, and I count it as gain to die to self daily and work for the kingdom. Yet, if my husband was able to help me a little in the way I help him... it would make this a lot easier, as I feel I am running on empty majority of the time.
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    do I resent my husband...?

    Sure. I also work, and lead a praise and worship team for our church. So I am not just a stay at home mom twiddling my thumbs until my husband comes home. My frustration is probably more to do with the fact that my husband does very little in terms of parenting, many a time he will sacrifice...
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    do I resent my husband...?

    Interesting.
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    do I resent my husband...?

    Both my husband & I are 24 years old, devout Christians, married with two beautiful kids. We are very active within our church ministries in both the youth department & Praise & worship & music ministry. We have a little boy, who is in school, and a six month old baby girl. Shortly after her...