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Recent content by Megan

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    How to Deal With Her Parents...

    I earlier posted that they immediately should stop lying. There I am in agreement with you. But as for him and her NOT continuing their relationship I am not in agreement with you. And to honour your parents does not mean that they are to decide things for you. Prayers Megan
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    How to Deal With Her Parents...

    Now I am wondering... Sure we are to honor our parents, BUT some decisions really are not up to our parents to take!! I honor my parents, but this has NEVER(edit: they have had their input and sometimes I've realised they are right... And sometimes they have realised that a specific person...
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    How to Deal With Her Parents...

    *sigh* Now I really feel for you and really for your girlfriend... I am sorry I hit the nail on the head :( This is what makes me so sad. If the 2 of you lived here in Sweden I could honestly say that the financial side are not a problem since Med. school (well all Unis, colleges) are...
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    How to Deal With Her Parents...

    WOW!! Not an easy situation my friend!! 1. Stop the lying. That can only end in disaster (or something not to fun). Her mum being manipulitative? Why? Is there something underlying there? 2. Try to sort out if it is "only" doctrines that her mum has problems with. Could her mum have some...
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    What are your thoughts on this...?

    I have to say: I am wondering what in whole this your friend felt was wrong..?? :confused: Like someone else said: did something happen (did he see/do something you did not) that was "wrong"? Also have to agree with: what is the difference between for example a retreat/trip with church in...
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    Guy rules

    I feel :blush: because here my boyfriend pointed out to me early in our relationshio that I did not close the "lid" on the toilet. He leaves the seat down and closed... I apparently leaves it down, but not closed.... But it is really bad when BF tells you a thing like that... Prayers, Megan
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    There's been an earthquake in Mexico City!

    BBC on earthquake This is some info... Megan
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    i hate this

    JFFL; Of course women can do everything they want and wish for (well with physical limitations perhaps). I am actually wondering what things you have been told you cannot do...? I've been lucký to be brought up with parents giving us children (2 daughters) the opportunities to develope as...
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    Where did you meet your SO?

    It is a Swedish Christian Site (I am Swedish and live there) called 7th heaven... That would be the equivilant of 9th cloud I guess. Prayers, Megan
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    How far did you trave for you SO?

    ...would be someting like 400 miles... This is the distance to my boyfriend. That is okey for now, but... How long will it be... /Megan
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    Where did you meet your SO?

    Internet - christian dating site
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    what could it be?

    Tell your friend to decide to either trust his girlfriend (with the answer she has given him) or talk to her again about it. And this time sincerely tell her about his thought and doubts. But after that discussion he has to leave it because otherwise he is disrespectful to her and not trusting...
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    How fast can it happen?!

    ...on persons and circumstances... I really think one should not make "rules" on this... What is right for me (when involved with one person) might not be right for you. prayers Megan
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    I give up.

    Tsaxgurl: God does never think of us as complete failures... that is ourself and other persons talking!! Everytime you sincerely asks God to forgive you he does it and FORGETS about what you have done. That is: He is NOT keeping a list and saying... "Oh, now she's done it again for the 31th...
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    Can't Stop Crying

    Oh... Forgot one thing! CRY!!! If you need that outlet use it!!! Crying can be a vent sometimes!! And be kind to yourself... embedd yourself with warmth, eat/drink something that soothes you! Love yourself!!! /Megan