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Recent content by Mandahuff

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    Friend and the Occult

    Thanks for the replies. I know cutting her out sounds harsh, but I guess I failed to emphasize that she doesn’t respect boundaries very well and continues to be pushy at times. Not just with this particular issue but that is just how she presents herself on many things that she is into. This...
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    Friend and the Occult

    Hello I’m looking for some advice. I have a friend that I was friends with before I became a Christian. We have drifted apart quite a bit over the years, but every once and awhile she will message me or come by. The last time she came by she talked quite a bit about how she was into tarot...
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    Should I find another church

    Thank you for your reply and prayers
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    Should I find another church

    Thank you.. I realize over the years that mental health is a taboo subject especially at church. I’m a part of a lot of mental health support groups online as well. I feel like it’s a passion of mine to help others with mental health struggles, and to be open about it, actually my job is working...
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    Should I find another church

    I honestly don’t know. It seems to come from one specific person more so then others. This specific person seems easily offended by a lot things.
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    Should I find another church

    I understand needing to confront it. I’m the type of person that avoids any type of conflict, and prefers to keep the peace. I feel like it mostly comes from one specific person who known to gossip, but without knowing what’s being said or what’s going on I would feel odd just asking why people...
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    Should I find another church

    I assume there is a misunderstanding In what I posted. I’m not talking about anything going on at my church on Facebook or anybody at church or anybody specific at all. I have struggled with depression, so sometimes I post about my feelings on Facebook. Share things other people share, and it’s...
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    Should I find another church

    Status and memes are not offensive in that way. I tend to post about my feelings or emotions often. I’m just a deeper thinker. Example: I posted a meme about how introverts have trouble making friends etc. It was took personally in a way I didn’t consider a certain person as my friend. It was...
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    Should I find another church

    Hello I came here looking for some advice about a situation. I recently started attending church again about 8 months ago. Everything was going really well for awhile, and I really enjoyed the fellowship and service. Im involved with teaching pre-school, and felt like it was where God wanted me...
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    depression is killing me

    Thank you for the response. I seem to feel a lot better every time I pray so, I have been just running to God with it lately. I do have three cats and they love to be petted.
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    depression is killing me

    I just read your link. Thank you for sharing.
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    Is it Normal to be Depressed and Unhappy in the Christian Walk?

    Going through something very similar right now. I recently came back to God after three years of backsliding. I had numerous negative church experiences. Which I blame somewhat on my depression and anxiety a lot of people do not understand depression and anxiety. Since I came back I’m more...
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    depression is killing me

    Thank you for all the comments. I was in desperation mode with no where to turn. It helped me greatly to read all that you posted. I’m glad to see others understand. Im really working hard with Gods help to overcome this. Thanks again.
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    depression is killing me

    Thank you. This sounds so much like what I’m going through. I have the same issues with attending church. Any little thing I blow it out proportion in my mind and think everyone is working against me. I actually fell away from God for the last few years and I convinced myself God hated me and...
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    depression is killing me

    Thank you. I'm feeling better today I called the emergency line and talked to a therapist. It maybe a reverse reaction to the meds they put me on. Thank you I open up very well, but im trying