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Recent content by m0ngoos3

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    My 19 y.o. (future) Brother in-law is doing/selling Drugs.....

    My problem is that my boyfriends mother, Fran, is either choosing to do nothing or is choosing to be oblivious. She is neither stupid nor incompetent. This year her 58 year old husband, Jim, my fiance's father, passed away. They were married, unhappily, for about 24 years resulting in two...
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    Harry Potter nonsense

    thats right. Things are only as strong as the power you give to them.
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    Healing Pornography Addicts, I need your advice

    Elisha, Yes he does feel remorse for his actions. You can read about it in my other post here
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    Harry Potter nonsense

    Harry Potter is far from evil and even farther from being a "children's book". Witchcraft is not real and these books are purely fictional (obviously) "Do you ever read any of the books you burn?" He laughed. "That's against the law!" "Oh. Of course." Farenheit 451 If you wish to create...
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    Pornography advice and prayer.....

    yes there has been a lot of really helpful advice. Always room for more :)
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    Healing Pornography Addicts, I need your advice

    My boyfriend and I have had a major 'intervention' of sorts recently and we are trying real hard together to beat this. We are both sort of new to the area we live in so we dont have any Christian friends. This was a problem when we realized that he really needed an accountability partner. Well...
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    Healing Pornography Addicts, I need your advice

    My boyfriend and I have had a major 'intervention' of sorts recently and we are trying real hard together to beat this. We are both sort of new to the area we live in so we dont have any Christian friends. This was a problem when we realized that he really needed an accountability partner. Well...
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    Pornography advice and prayer.....

    So many people struggle with it as I have come to find out. I hope that he finds the help he needs and that you can gather the strength to help him fight this. Read the responses in this thread and even go to the Men Pornography Addiction page...I've read it a lot here recently and its helped...
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    Pornography advice and prayer.....

    Weasle7711 I told him about the program and explained to him what it was. and how it was supposed to fulfill the accountability portion in the steps to recovery..... Well, we obviously know very little about how to overcome his demons. We've tried him "telling me everything" before and...
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    Pornography advice and prayer.....

    Thank you yourinnervoice, Your advice means a lot to me. I do care about him so much, and as I am young, it doesn't void me experience and knowledge, which in your writing made me feel you understand. James (my boyfriend) is a very good person and a sweet boy. We are both very young, though and...
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    Pornography advice and prayer.....

    You are correct in everything you said, in fact, we've had an "intervention" of sorts, in where he told me that same thing. I tried to put myself in him shoes and see how it would feel If I came to the person I was most ashamed of hurting, and that person lashed out at me.....well I definitely...
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    Pornography advice and prayer.....

    Well, where to begin? Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. Hes an extremely decent man. Hes a good person all the way around, but like all of us, he is human and has his faults. For as long as I can remember he has struggled with an addiction to Pornography. When we first met, he...
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    Please Pray - I Feel Like I'm Sinking Fast

    I will be praying for you and for all us women who have to help our men out of this darkness. It is so hard to stay strong when the pain of their actions make us weak, but with Gods help we can conquer this. God bless
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    Unspoken

    I will pray for you, and I hope that God will strengthen your mind to those things that you so desperately want to get rid of. Just know that you are in control of your own mind, and not the other way around. You alone can stop these things, but not entirely alone of course, God is the best...