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Recent content by lovefire

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    Internet relationships

    Yeah I hate to hear of things such as that myself. But I think maybe any relationship could be like that. I mean just cause the people were online doesn't mean it would have been different if you met them on the street. I think it is good to check everything out though. I would speak to family...
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    Internet relationships

    Would early be considered a year? I do know I will always learn something new about her. But I honestly believe I know enough to deside if I want to be with her or not.
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    Internet relationships

    Ok I have seen several horror stories on internet relationships. Things like "the person may not be who you think". I do agree that you don't get a good sence of who someone is online just by email and instant messages. But I am curious as to what you thought about a relationship when it moves...
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    boundries and desires

    Thx, I was wondering about that. I think it is a good thing that she doesn't want me to arouse her. I am very glad that there is a strong sence of purity in her. It's one of the things I love about her in fact.
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    boundries and desires

    Ok this may seem a little bit strange. But it is an actual consern of mine. You see, my gf and I have layed down some rules. They are to help us to keep from going too far or really even from being tempted. Because we both want to save EVERYTHING for the proper time. If you haven't noticed I am...
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    boundries

    Ok this is an interesting subject. I thought I would ask to see if there are any boundries that anyone has set? And if so what are they? I think boundries are good, but man I would love to not be so limited by fear of temptation. Guess thats what the ring is for ;)
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    Right and wrong

    Well, the reason I say I am considering myself engaged now is because we have talked about marriage. And we both want a short engagment. By that I mean a few days after engagment we are married lol. And we both want to be married to each other...in fact I already asked her if she would say yes...
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    Right and wrong

    Thanks everyone. I AM planing to marry her and she knows I am going to ask her soon enough. I just guess what bothers me is that I don't want her to feel ashamed or embarest to talk with me as her husband. It makes me wonder if thats how it will be when we marry because that is how it is now. Oh...
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    Right and wrong

    This is a strange thing for me. I love my gf very much. But when it comes to things relating to sex (even talking bout it) we don't know what we can and can't say. So the end result is that we don't talk about those things at all. The problem with that is that there are times I want to talk with...
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    virginity

    True enough it is something that is going to take someone tough enough to get over. But I personaly don't see how this quote is true IF he IS the one meant for her and her for him. Believe it or not our bodies are not our own. They are Gods bodies and after that they belong to the one we are to...
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    How Sexual Stuff Damages Ppl

    I know first hand how damaging it can be to the SO. I AM the SO of someone. I have kept myself all my life, including things as simple as a hug and kiss. Yet I found out resently my gf has not and it is really hurting me. I have so many questions. Such as for one, when such a thing is done, does...