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Recent content by L123

  1. L

    Sex and marriage

    no i mean in the instance that we are married but we want to delay having kids until we have saved money and prepared properly, what do you think to using contraception in marriage?
  2. L

    Sex and marriage

    any more thoughts on sex before marriage also anyone? i just want as much feedback as possible
  3. L

    Sex and marriage

    Thanks for your reply, okay say that i waited for marriage after ive finished my university degree and all is well, personally we dont want kids until our 2nd year of marriage, so that we can focus on making a good life for ourselves, getting a good house in a good area for kids and become...
  4. L

    Sex and marriage

    also see in my head, i think that when im with someone, to make sure they are the one you are meant to marry, you should know if you are sexually compatable with them, i mean, what if you wait for marriage and then realise your partner is terrible in bed, the physical side of relationships are...
  5. L

    Sex and marriage

    The thing is, we are already committed so we wouldnt be having sex for "convenience" as you say but to show our love for one another and become closer to each other. you shouldnt just get married so that youre allowed to have sex should you? because if thats what youd suggest then im sure there...
  6. L

    Sex and marriage

    Hi there, Im new to this site and joined to get some peoples opinions on this matter.. I have been in a relationship with this guy for 6 months now, we are both believers and go to church and always intended on waiting until marriage to have sex. We know we are each others soulmates and are...