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Recent content by kula2000

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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    No I did not, I'm the bread winner of the family.
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    Not sure is she knows, but I do include her in my life and I've been discussing my depression with her. I haven't been shutting her out or turning away from her, I've been trying to cleave to her as much as possible. I'm meeting with my pastor tomorrow and I'm praying that he'll be able to...
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    No she isn't, as I first want to go by myself to get advice first and then I'll see how to involve my wife. I don't know how to tell her how a feel completely and don't even know if I should, as it would crush her to know.
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    Thank you again for your prayers. I'm physically feeling better these days and I have discussed some of my depression issues with my pastor and we are arranging a time to get together to start working on the depression. It has been a struggle and I believe too that God is using this to draw me...
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    Barely made it through Christmas and new years, it has been a struggle. Not sure what to tell my pastor as he knows us both and might be upset if I tell him everything. At this point the pain of what I've done is sometimes unbearable and how I ripped off my wife of a real marriage. I...
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    I've planned a time to meet with my Pastor in person and I've had a good with him on the phone about my depression. We prayed together and gave me many words of encouragement. He's going to help set me up with a counsellor or he may do the counselling himself. Thanks again for your prayers...
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    Yes that's what I'm trying to do, change my focus, it's just that's what started the depression, and it has consumed me in rumination. I'm not looking for a loophole, I just want the sadness to leave me so I focus on breaking the circular thought. I also believe that God allowed this...
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    Just to clarify that I'm depressed because I'm in a new marriage where I don't love my spouse and I keep ruminating on the thought that I could have prevented all of the current situation. I'm worried that counselling and treatment won't work because the source of the depression is the...
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    I would love to hear more testimonies of how God has improved a situation similar my sime as it really builds my faith and gives me so much hope.
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    I'm so touched and I'm so glad that God has answered my prayer be directing me to this site. I can't believe how many caring christians are out there and are so willing simply to pray and give advice without judgement. My wife and I do a bible reading and pray together every night before we go...
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    Thanks again, you are reaching my heart with your words and advice. I'll keep you posted and really appreciate everyones responses so far, they are helping. I just need to focus, put into practice and not let the evil one divert me.
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    Thanks MaraPetra, your post made me break down. I've been doing all those this you've suggested in showing love for my wife. I make effort to touch her, compliment her, buy her flowers regularly, help with house work. But I can see that the depression is hurting her because she wants the Man...
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    Thanks, it wasn't that I was lacking faith, but I just need affirmation from fellow christians. I'm constantly praying about this as it's on my mind all the time. I keep asking God to fill me with Romantic Love for my wife and to have me view her as God sees her. I just don't know what kind...
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    I'm new to this forum and I'm desperate for help and prayer. I recently got married and I didn't get married for love, which is a really long story. I was rushed into the decision and thought I loved my wife to be, but after we reached the final days towards the wedding I realized that I was...
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